This thread is like a guest on the Jerry Springer show. The guest is in an abusive relationship and the crowd wonders aloud why she's still with him. But despite the battery, infidelity, and money sponging, she can't bring herself to acknowledge the obvious. She loves him Jerry. If only everyone else could understand him like she does, they'd quit criticizing. After all, he's really the victim not her. Blame society.
Good comparison. It should have a place in the DSM-V manual...a new kind of mental disorder. As such, here are the key stages of the illness:
THE FOUR PSYCHOLOGICAL STAGES OF THE BATTERED SWEDE/GERMAN SYNDROME
DENIAL
The Swede or German refuses to admit--even to themself--that they are being abused or that there is a "problem" in letting these strangers into their national house. They may call each experience of abuse as a "statistical anomaly" or "misunderstood by the haters". They offer excuses for their squatters mooching and violence, and each time they firmly believe it is unrelated to their squatters culture or origins.
GUILT
They now acknowledge there is a problem, but considers themselves responsible for it. They "deserve" to be abused because they were a former colonialist or NAZI, or simply because as a white European they have defects in their character and are not living up to their abusive squatters expectations.
ENLIGHTENMENT
The Swede/German no longer assumes responsibility for the guest moochers abusive treatment, recognizing that no one "deserves" to be exploited and abused. They are still committed to their dysfunctional relationship, though, and refuse to boot them out hoping they can work things out.
RESPONSIBILITY
Accepting the fact that the hordes will not, or can not, stop their behavior and mooching, nor keep the national home in shape; the battered Swede/German decides they will no longer submit to it and pays them to leave...or handcuffs them and ship them out.
So far, Swedes and Germans are mainly at the first or second stage.