You'd be just the same given the same inputs and experiences. I agree the country is broken, but broken like a gangster state, like Hitler's Germany. Russia will change in time just like its predecessor. It will certainly take a while and much sacrifice.
I think that there's a much more recent and relevant predecessor, the US invasion of Iraq.
Like the current Ukraine situation, it was a naked grab for wealth and power and strategically valuable territory. Like Russia, the US government had to lie and lie to keep any support from the populace. And like Russian propaganda, it worked.
Unlike Putin though, Bush managed to create a "Coalition of the Willing". Dumbass as it looks in hindsight, plenty of governments joined in.
Cameron's Blair's GB was unusually stupid in that regard, but there were lots. People (not me) joined the USA in support. People around the world joined the USA to rescue Iraqis from their government.
Poland, we'll never forget!
Yeah, this is a bit of an historical fog. The US had a COALITION (<- all caps) for the Afghanistan operation. That coalition (<- no caps) dwindled to the UK, Poland, and several other small nations that contributed dozens of troops. In general, the "coalition" (<- notice the sarcastic quotes) was really just the US and UK.
Putin has mostly managed to create the opposite of Bush's Coalition. Putin has managed to create a Coalition against him and Russian opportunism. The state of his war is as bad as the state of Bush's war, this far in. But unlike Bush, Putin has united most of his neighbors in opposition.
This was never supposed to be a war. Much to barbos' protest, this wasn't even supposed to be much of a military operation... because Ukraine was supposed to give up immediately. But the troops never even made it to Kviv. Putin underestimated the intelligence and salesmanship of a comedian and that the mayor of Kviv professionally beat people up very well for a living. Russia didn't need a coalition, this thing was going end as quick as it started, like Crimea. This was more like Afghanistan, really. W did draw a line and say no more, they took action. Biden didn't draw a line, he said 'enough' and the Western Allies did as well.
Iraq isn't remotely similar to Ukraine. Both stories involved lying in the run up to the invasions. But as I noted, Russia was supposed to just take over, where as the US negotiated with the Iraqi military to just lay down the arms. Iraq was never really a war, it was an occupation... a very poorly run one. Ukraine was never supposed to be a war, but it became one. A very poorly waged one.
I don't think that the world will take as long to tell Putin "Fuck Off" as it did for them to tell Bush.
You are clearly misremembering contemporary history. One of the damning things about W, the list is long, was he pissed off our allies prior to 9/11. Then 9/11 came, we rebonded... and then well before Afghanistan was finished, W turned to Iraq (formally... the W Admin was investigating targeting Hussein on 9/12/01) and most of the world was like "DUDE WTF?!" Blair tagged along like a dumb much younger sibling, but that was it. W burned the bridges again with our allies.
There is a reason Obama won the Nobel Peace Prize, it was due to the relief from the chronic fatigue of the W Admin apathy and indifference to the rest of the globe, and that dated to 2003, not 2006 or 2007.