Well that explains Theo Van Gogh and Charlie Hebo.
Why do you give excuse to bad behavior? What bothers me is that your apparent viewpoint is akin to blaming a rape victim for dressing provocatively.
Wearing what she wore, she was asking for it. As an Islam apologist, perhaps that's not too surprising; it's the reason women are forced to wear hajib. But it's this abhorrent idea that the perpetrator has no responsibility for self-control. That people who adhere to the Muslim faith cannot be expected to behave like the rest of us. The bigotry of low expectations.
That's an interesting analogy. Let's try looking at it from a rape victim's viewpoint:
Suppose there's a woman who walks to work every day. Most people know she was gang raped a few years ago. One day, an empty lot on her route becomes a construction site. The men working there start catcalling every time the woman walks by. She is visibly upset at the treatment, which amuses the men so they goad and bait her all the more. She complains about the harassment, but no one will do anything because the men have the right of free speech, and they are on break when she walks by. One day, as she is walking past, a man mimes getting a blow job from her with loud moans and commentary about how much he is enjoying her mouth. The reminder of the degradation she suffered during the rape makes her literally see red. She snaps, pulls out a gun, and shoots him.
Obviously, she has committed a violent act in response to speech and should be prosecuted and punished accordingly. But is that all there is to it? Does the man and his co-workers bear no responsibility for provoking her into violence?
How about the school kids who shoot people or commit suicide as a response to relentless bullying? Do the bullies bear no responsibility for provoking violence and self destruction through their campaign of harassing and insulting others?
I support free speech. I believe in the inherent right to have an opinion and express it. I support artists creating the art they want to create carrying the message they want to send. But I also believe in behaving responsibly. If you are deliberately provoking people you know are likely to be extremely upset and liable to react violently, you don't get to play the innocent if you get the expected result.