ronburgundy
Contributor
From a conservative friend on Facebook today
Something a friend posted today: I found a lot of truth in this, for me...
"I am not a "disgrace to women" because I don't support the women's march. I do not feel I am a "second class citizen" because I am a woman. I do not feel my voice is "not heard" because I am a woman. I do not feel I am not provided opportunities in this life or in America because I am a woman. I do not feel that I "don't have control of my body or choices" because I am a woman. I do not feel like I am " not respected or undermined" because I am a woman.
I AM a woman.
I can make my own choices.
I can speak and be heard.
I can VOTE.
I can work if I want.
I control my body.
I can defend myself.
I can defend my family.
There is nothing stopping me to do anything in this world but MYSELF.
I do not blame my circumstances or problems on anything other than my own choices or even that sometimes in life, we don't always get what we want. I take responsibility for myself.
I am a mother, a daughter, a wife, a sister, a friend. I am not held back in life but only by the walls I choose to not go over which is a personal choice.
Quit blaming.
Take responsibility.
If you want to speak, do so. But do not expect for me, a woman, to take you seriously wearing a pink va-jay-jay hat on your head and screaming profanities and bashing men.
If you have beliefs, and speak to me in a kind matter, I will listen. But do not expect for me to change my beliefs to suit yours. Respect goes both ways.
If you want to impress me, especially in regards to women, then speak on the real injustices and tragedies that affect women in foreign countries that do not have the opportunity or means to have their voices heard.
Saudi Arabia, women can't drive, no rights and must always be covered.
China and India, infanticide of baby girls.
Afghanistan, unequal education rights.
Democratic Republic of Congo, where rapes are brutal and women are left to die, or HIV infected and left to care for children alone.
Mali, where women can not escape the torture of genital mutilation.
Pakistan, in tribal areas where women are gang raped to pay for men's crime.
Guatemala, the impoverished female underclass of Guatemala faces domestic violence, rape and the second-highest rate of HIV/AIDS after sub-Saharan Africa. An epidemic of gruesome unsolved murders has left hundreds of women dead, some of their bodies left with hate messages.
And that's just a few examples.
So when women get together in AMERICA and whine they don't have equal rights and they're marching in their clean clothes after eating a hearty breakfast, I have to shake my head. If you want to protest, and as long as it's peaceful have at it; I will not be there."
Thoughts?
SLD
"Thoughts?"
No, this person has no thoughts, only vacuous words they were trained to parrot.
It isn't a matter of opinion, but a matter of objective fact that as a woman in the USA, she is increasingly prohibited by law from making her own choices and controlling her own body. So, she is either a liar, an idiot, or just saying empty words without any concept of their meaning.
The second half of the post amounts to nothing more than "America is the best! Love it or leave it!" The idea that no one should complain about injustices, if there is anyone anywhere that is worse off is mindless nationalism. It is at odds with how and why the US was founded and with what makes it worth fighting for. Women in the US are only better off than those in many other countries because of organized efforts to constantly fight against efforts to limit female equality. Cowards like the conservative in the OP have been the opposition to every bit of moral and political progress over the last few centuries. Women would not have the right to vote, if more women were as gutlessly content to simply not be worse off than they were. And there are brutalized women in Muslim countries being given the same "shut up and bake" message that this conservative has, with the same rationale that at least they are not worse off.
How ironically unAmerican it is to use America's superiority over the injustices in other nations as a rationale to promote sheepish complacency is disregard for injustices and inequalities at home.
