Don2 (Don1 Revised)
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I'll give special consideration, because I wouldn't expect a köttbullar to get it.
In my neighborhood, no one would ask me how I know when the word "nigger" is intended as a slur, without regard to whether there is any shame in being the thing to which the slur refers.
So basically... you can't explain it? As I see it, accepting racial descriptions as slurs is just giving free ammunition to racists. I don't see how that benefits anybody. Creating an environment of egg-shells to transverse isn't going to make the world a better place. I promise.
Your commentary strikes me as odd because it attributes the creation to external people of the creation. I mean, neither politically correct nor slaves created the negative connotation of the n-word. It happened because jerks added the connotation by their actions while using the word. Connotations get added to words over time in such a way. History happens.