Things like being responsible, driven, organized, personable and logical are likely more important.
2 out of 5 ain’t too bad right?
Uh huh, I am distinctly NOT responsible, driven or organized. But people like me and I can think (if not act) logically.
The people I know who are responsible, driven and organized are either quite unhappy seeming, or tend to compartmentalize those attributes, and make plenty of time for cutting loose. I admire those in the latter category, but alas - I will never measure up to that.
You seem pretty responsible and driven, at least when it comes to your pets. You're obviously smart and have a good sense of humor, so what else does one need.
I've known plenty of MDs who were not very smart, lacked critical thinking skills and were in the low end when it came to emotional intelligence, which to me is vitally important to be a really competent health professional.
SATs are pure bullshit imo. Some people aren't good at taking standardized tests, while others are very good at it. And, as I think Toni has mentioned, parents with money often spend a lot to have their children tutored in how to improve their scores as well as taking the tests several times. One of the reasons I feel this way is because my son, who graduated with honors with a degree in computer science, and then went on to have a very successful, enjoyable career as a programmer/developer for the past 25 or so years, had incredibly low SAT scores. That kept him out of his first choice of colleges, despite already having a 2 year degree in computer science technology with excellent grades, along with some work experience in that field, but it didn't hold him back from accomplishing his career goals. He taught himself how to program using machine language as a teenager, despite not getting great grades in high school, so he obviously had talent in that area. He sure didn't get it from me, but to this day, he loves what he does. My scores weren't that great, but they were better than all of my straight A friends in high school and I never prepared for my SATs and I only took them once, unlike many of my smarter friends. I didn't care because I wan't trying to get into some highly competitive school.
My nursing board scores were very high, which was another type of standardized test. Nursing boards are now pass/fail, which is probably a good thing. My school trained us in how to take the nursing boards, by making all of our tests in the same format as the boards, and that probably helped most of us score high on the boards. Standardized test results, imo, should never be used as a way to judge one's potential success at college or in life. I'm happy to see so many schools do away with them. I'd rather have an applicant write an essay. Good writing skills are important in most professions. I'm not interested in arguing about it. I simply disagree with anyone who seems to think these tests are a measure of one's intelligence or ability to do well in college. And, I think it's even crazier to use them to judge someone who has been successful in their political career.
How did we get so off topic?
This is all just ancedotal about you and your son regarding SAT scores and grades. No doubt there are many stories like this. But is this a solid trend over millions of test takers over decades? I sorta doubt it. I suspect its on the rare side.
For lots of careers having the highest grades and SAT scores don't matter that much, including politicians. Things like being responsible, driven, organized, personable and logical are likely more important. As well as having good social skills and being able to put up with other people's bullshit
(which are my shortcomings). For me personally, when it comes to matters of life and death, doctors and nurses are a different story. I would be lying if I said it didn't matter to me whether the surgeon and his/her team operating on my brain had among the highest scores in academia or the lowest passing grades.
Sure, my examples are anecdotal but I've found it to be true about standardized tests in general and I have never seen any clear evidence that one's SAT scores equate with success. College is more about being motivated, having goals and being willing to study and learn.
Ya need some more anecdotes?
My husband had high SAT scores and was accepted to a competitive school in Florida, where he partied too much and flunked out the first semester. He had no goals, career wise, and was being pushed to study medicine or dentistry by his family, which he had no interest in. He worked for a year or two and then went to the U of Miami, where he studied what he loved....engineering. He graduated with good grades and enjoyed a long career in engineering and sometimes IT, as companies pulled their plants offshore. I bullshitted my way through three years of liberal arts before finally deciding I needed a career that would allow me to be independent. Nursing was the most difficult thing I ever studied, but it gave me the knowledge and license to get a job whenever I wanted and to experience a stressful but interesting career for decades. Again, what do SAT scores have to do with anyone's success? I don't think I ever needed SAT scores to be accepted in a nursing program, which was very competitive at the time.
You mentioned surgeons? They are basically highly skilled technicians, if they are good at what they do. It helps if they have a lot of emotional intelligence as that helps keep their patients comfortable and trusting. Again, what do SAT scored have to do with being a highly skilled technician or being able to interact with people in a mature, compassionate way?
Unfortunately, some of them aren't very good at what they do, so their patients sometimes end up with severe deep, open, draining wounds, left for nurses to clean up and help heal. Been there, done that! I imagine that most of the bad ones also had pretty good SAT scores, but what does that have to do with their skills as surgeons....nothing. It's a talent as well as a learned skill.
Apparently, I'm not the only one who has decided that SATs are just an expensive money making scheme that allow the, wealthier members of society to prepare their offspring to score higher on them. Maybe that's not exactly how the schools see it, but since so many no longer require them as part of the admission process, they must have come to realize that they don't predict success, and there are many other things to base admissions on, including even work and life experience. Perhaps most young people need to take a gap year or two before they start college. There are plenty of ways of assessing if one is ready to be successful in college. I just don't think that SAT scores are necessary or predictive in most cases.