It turns out to be much more common than many of us thought:
Um...dismal, is there any place on the site that shows that 'include' is to be defined as 'every single instance of this would be an instance of?'
I mean, you have shown that you have a problem with reading for comprehension. But is it at all possible, in your view, that this list was NOT intended to make, say, every single time a woman witholds sex a form of sexual violence, but maybe to make readers aware that sometimes, even witholding sex could be seen as a form of sexual violence?
If my wife turns down sex because she wants me to buy her a new car, that's manipulation, sure. Using sex as a weapon. If she's tired, or having a period, or just not in the mood, and NOT trying to punish me or manipulate me, she just doesn't want to have sex, i would probably not see it as sexual violence, AND see that interpretation as not contradicting the list you posted.
Your milage may differ.
It usually does.