Don2 (Don1 Revised)
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My definition of "a woman" would be someone who identifies as a woman.I identify as a purple housecat with wings who eats only brie cheese with fresh figs.
No, you don't.
My definition of "a woman" would be someone who identifies as a woman.I identify as a purple housecat with wings who eats only brie cheese with fresh figs.
Right; but true hermaphrodites with mosaicism are rare enough that we'll have the tail wagging the dog if we let that control our thinking about typical cases.I agree it's arbitrary, but so is using the superficial morphology of the genitals, or the fine structure of the gonads, or the shape of the gametes (if any). But it seems to be what most of the "you're either a man or a woman and that's the end of it" crowd come up with when pressed.
And in every case, whatever you chose as the most important dividing criterion, there will be ambiguous cases - if nothing else, true hermaphrodites with mosaicism do exist. And my only point, at this point, is that "assigned male at birth" is a more accurate descriptor in the particular context than "biologically male". A hermaphrodite with XY/XX mosaicism isn't in any meaningful sense "biologically male" (at least not at the exclusion of being biologically female). Yet, if, and only if, they were assigned male at birth do they have to transition to live as a woman.
My definition of "a woman" would be someone who identifies as a woman.I identify as a purple housecat with wings who eats only brie cheese with fresh figs.
No, you don't.
Regarding your recent posts (and not really the one I’m quoting above) there’s two things you seem to be saying.My definition of "a woman" would be someone who identifies as a woman.I identify as a purple housecat with wings who eats only brie cheese with fresh figs.
Emily Lake said:Honestly, it sounds like begging the question. You start out with the assumption that the wiring is materially and meaningfully different, in a way that dictates behavior and feelings and identity. Then you make predictions about what kind of wiring a person must have, based on your observations of how well they conform to the as-yet-unspecified wiring dictates that you've assumed exist.
I mean, it's nice that you include an element of stochasticism in there, so you're not subject to black-and-white thinking, but you're still assuming that your conclusion is true at the beginning.
So if we're going to be post-18th-century-scientific, we don't get to decide "biological sex" using "the superficial morphology of the genitals, or the fine structure of the gonads, or the shape of the gametes". We have to decide using the superficial morphology of the genitals AND the fine structure of the gonads AND the shape of the gametes -- AND a hundred other minor details that come in bimodal spectra and that correlate with one another over the population. If we do that, "biological sex" won't be arbitrary, because we won't be subjectively deciding whether menstruation is more important than beards. We'll just be observing that some non-menstruating person has 1 male characteristic and 102 female characteristics.
When I hear it claimed that M2Fs have been shown to have neurologically female brains, I'm skeptical as to whether what the arguer claimed is actually the same thing as what the researchers showed. The researchers presumably made a measurement of some aspect of brain anatomy or chemistry that comes in a bimodal spectrum and that correlates with other sex-linked traits, and they observed that M2Fs tend to land in the normal "female" range of that aspect of brains. But this is not sufficient to imply the subjects have "female brains". To have shown that, the researchers would need to have also studied a hundred other measurable properties of brains.
Of the research into brain differences that I've read, they're doing bad science by your definition (which makes a lot of sense). They identify, ferinstance, 4 very specific elements that seem to be more similar to those specific elements in the brain of a female than a male. But they ignore the other 46 that are more similar to those same elements in the brain of a male. And they completely ignore the 9,950 other elements that show no observable difference between males and females at all. Furthermore, of the 50 out of 10,000 elements that show some degree (albeit minor) of measurable difference between males and females, they can't consistently distinguish between which of those elements are a biological results (driven by hormones or other sex-differentiated attributes) and which are a result of brain plasticity reflecting prior experience and the reality of social gender roles.
I still don't see any real harms being presented. Ironically white-knighting women's sports and the idiotic "someone's in the bathroom!" fake boogeyshman aren't legitimate harms. Did I miss someone presenting an even remotely compelling harm to society in any of this nonsense, because those two non-arguments don't even begin to cut it?
I love how it always seems to be men who don't care about women's sports who so stridently decry that women's sports aren't a big deal and no harm is done. For fuck's sake, just because it doesn't affect you and you don't care about it doesn't mean it's not a big fucking deal! This is the kind of bullshit that women have been dealing with since forever. It's an incredibly common oversight by privilege. It's something that doesn't matter to men, men don't think it's important... therefore it can't possibly be important to women, and they're just overreacting. It's just one more case of men shutting down women's voices as not mattering.
It's no different than when I tell my husband that he did something that I don't like, and that makes me mad... and he responds with "Sheesh, calm down, it's not that big a deal!". Well guess what, it IS that big a deal TO ME, or I wouldn't fucking bring it up in the first goddamned place!
So yeah, go ahead and just dismiss the concerns that females raise - the impact on sports and sports-related scholarships and sponsorship; the impact of the feelings of safety, security, and privacy in areas that are designated as female only; the risk of housing male-bodied transwomen in women's prisons. Those aren't "real" arguments, and don't represent "real" harm to society... because they only affect females, and that's just not important.
What's really important is making sure that males don't feel put out in any way, even when they're identifying as women. It's far more important that males get their way than that the concerns and challenges that females place get a seat at the fucking table.
I still don't see any real harms being presented. Ironically white-knighting women's sports and the idiotic "someone's in the bathroom!" fake boogeyshman aren't legitimate harms. Did I miss someone presenting an even remotely compelling harm to society in any of this nonsense, because those two non-arguments don't even begin to cut it?
I love how it always seems to be men who don't care about women's sports
So yeah, go ahead and just dismiss the concerns that females raise
the impact of the feelings of safety, security, and privacy in areas that are designated as female only
Those aren't "real" arguments, and don't represent "real" harm to society... because they only affect females, and that's just not important.
Honestly, I remain skeptical on this point. I am perfectly happy to treat trans people with respect and dignity and use whatever pronouns are requested. I just can't really manage to get my mind over the hurdle wherein the only people who are capable of experiencing what it feels like to be a woman inside, in a way that is separated from biology or social gender roles... are all people who are males.
That strikes me as having questionable validity as an entire concept. If feeling like a woman on the inside is a legitimate thing that isn't related to reproductive sex, body type, etc. and is not a simple result of how society treats a person based on gender roles, then it seems like people who are female women and have always been should be capable of feeling that same thing and expressing it somewhat.
On this, I have an entirely unpopular opinion, which is highly likely to piss off a bunch of people.
Brains are surprisingly plastic. The things that we spend a lot of time thinking about, especially if we attach strong emotion to them, change the wiring in our brains.
Try the experiment. Over the course of the next week, when you get up in the morning, look at yourself in the mirror naked. Tell yourself that you look wrong, and that your penis is wrong. Tell yourself that you are supposed to be curvier and rounder, and you're supposed to have breasts. Construct a mental image of what you would look like as a woman, and focus on that in contrast to what you see in the mirror. Find every variance, and focus on how it should look. Repeat this a few times a day. When someone mentions your outfit or your looks or glances at your body, tell yourself that they're judging you for how wrong you look. Tell yourself they're not seeing the real you. Imagine how they would treat you if you looked like the woman that you're supposed to be, how they would interact with you differently. Make this a repeated mantra for one week.
Then come back next week and let me know how you feel about your actual body.
What's really important is making sure that males don't feel put out in any way, even when they're identifying as women. It's far more important that males get their way than that the concerns and challenges that females place get a seat at the fucking table.
Nice ironic strawman. Are you a professional female athlete? No? Then don't speak for them just as you are chastising me. No female athlete I've ever known (professional or other) has argued that they should be specially treated due to their plumbing. Why are you?
Show me one professional female athlete who is raising any issue at all regarding the .000000001% chance of a transgender male to female taking over their sport--or the masses of scholarships that are being taken away from anyone--for this to even remotely be considered any kind of real world harm and maybe you'd have some semblance of a point, but even then you'd be arguing for forced segregation because women aren't strong enough to compete against men.
In short, you are the one arguing that female athletes can't cut it on their own.
Horseshit. How do you not feel safe by another woman being in your locker room? Your bigoted ignorance about transgendered people does not translate into you not being safe or secure (or private for that matter).
Address the actual argument, not this bigoted bullshit. If you're not safe, secure or private when there is another woman in your bathroom or locker room then you have no fucking argument.
If you aren't a professional female athlete arguing that your livelihood is somehow being taken away by the millions of transgender athletes that are now plotting to undergo operations just to steal your trophy, then you have no fucking argument.
No, you don't.
That’s what I was thinking too.
Regarding your recent posts (and not really the one I’m quoting above) there’s two things you seem to be saying.
One is that transgender isn’t ‘normal’.
On that point I guess the question of whether it’s a mental illness or a defect comes up. I can see how it could be said, although it seems controversial, because it was (and still is) said about something else, homosexuality.
The other is that transgender isn’t ‘real’. That’s even more contentious imo.
No, you don't.
That’s what I was thinking too.
Emily's point, as I'm sure both you and Don2 chose to ignore, is that claims are not reality, and it doesn't matter whether that claim is sincere or not.
Is Rachel Dolezal black?
And they really think they can become the sex they wish they were. And even if they can't become the sex they wish they were, they insist on forcing the world to pretend they are. The world must not become a parent indulging in a child's play-acting at being a dinosaur.
Reasons which apply to the acceptance of transgender identities do not necessarily apply on the basis of race. They do not apply on the basis of imaginary animal status.
And they really think they can become the sex they wish they were. And even if they can't become the sex they wish they were, they insist on forcing the world to pretend they are. The world must not become a parent indulging in a child's play-acting at being a dinosaur.
No. No one is required to pretend. The only change to the status quo is the concept that gender identity should play a definitive role with regard to civic and social categorizations.
My definition of "a woman" would be someone who identifies as a woman.I identify as a purple housecat with wings who eats only brie cheese with fresh figs.
No, you don't.
First of all, people do make sincere claims that they are otherkin. Emily's was not, but dismissing it because it was not sincere doesn't help. What do you do with sincere claims? You surely do not treat those people as if they were the species they are claiming to (perhaps part-time) be.
But I'm interested in why you think there are reasons transgender identities can be accepted, but that those reasons do not apply to trans-racial identities.
One is that transgender isn’t ‘normal’. On that point I guess the question of whether it’s a mental illness or a defect comes up. I can see how it could be said, although it seems controversial, because it was (and still is) said about something else, homosexuality.
The other is that transgender isn’t ‘real’. That’s even more contentious imo.
It wouldn’t matter to me how it’s real (better to say physical perhaps) because, well, I offered the suggestion of, for example, differences by gender in amounts of oxytocin having the sort of effects, in general terms, that we might be talking about. I’m not limiting myself to only transgender persons when I say that, but referring to the gender roles/identities thing in general. And I’m only using oxytocin as a hypothetical/possible example, to illustrate a point in principle.