Emily Lake
Might be a replicant
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lol. sorry I derailed. My opinion is Kink should be kept private and if public it must be at the appropriate time/place.
For me it's more... Dress as you like, be social as you will, but mind the "volume".
In a tangential fashion, I have a staff I carry around with me everywhere. It HAD until recently been decorated with a shiny metal chain and a fabulous, fluffy, shimmering turkey body feather, with various gems dangling off smaller chains. It was, in it's gentle and quiet rustling very loud.
I realized this the other day; It had been seen enough. The result was that I replaced the metal chain with a silk ribbon, rich and fine in its own way. The turkey feather is now a much smaller pair of parakeet feathers and some cat whiskers. All the gems are there, but jumped immediately to the ribbon without leads. It bespeaks much more richness and poshness now, but it is far less loud.
Even with a pretty stick, too much ostentatiousness is not really appreciated.
There are a lot of good reasons I guess, for even the more liberal among us to lend social pressure to keeping ones life from crescendoing into something others will find noxiously disruptive. This does not require sheltering the young from knowledge of themselves nor does it require suppression of the "abnormal". It just requires keeping our lives to be lived at respectable volumes.
I generally agree with you. I'm just of the opinion that rainbow dildo butt monkey and most drag costumes are too "loud" for grade-school children .