By using the word "us."
When there is an "us" there is a "them." I am all for stopping the militarization of police. In the military there are "us" and "them" too. We in our uniforms, civilians are "they."
My tribe -- us -- vs. that other tribe -- them. Political parties are tribes. Religions are tribes. Nations are tribes. We are a tribal species. We naturally favor our neighbors -- those like me, my kin.
To say "we are being shot" implies my group is being shot. The expectation is that what I see as "my" group is identifiable to others as not in theirs.
"Can't we all just get along?" The answer is "no." There is too much us vs. them mentality.
That's not
creating an us-v-them mentality, it's reacting to the us-v-them mentality that was created by your oppressors. If I am herded into a group of people by men with guns, and the men with guns open fire, I'm going to scream "stop shooting us!"
How, exactly, did Africans and African-Americans first come to be classified as "those people" in America, and who did the classifying? Following centuries of segregation and abuse, it's absurd to tell AAs that
they are creating an us-v-them mentality.
Okay, then, perhaps not "creating" an us-v-them. But surely fanning the flames of the existing us-v-them mentality. Accepting the classification established by the horrific attitude of men who would own others as property.
Many who identify as "black" are half white. Should I identify as Jewish for having a Jewish grandfather? Should someone with a black grandfather identify as black?
I've been stopped by police when doing nothing wrong that I knew of. They pulled me over because I had changed lanes without signalling. They never issued a ticket for that. They checked out the car visually. My GPS looked like a radar detector (illegal at that time and place); they wanted to take a close look. Was that stop for Driving While Bohunk (1 grandfather Bohemian-Hungarian)?
Stop killing. Not us. Not them. Just stop killing. Stop using force to get your way. Those who stop this last, or never were violent in the first place, will experience, in my opinion, less "being shot at" than those who do.
It is as racist to make the presumption of racism without the facts as it is to be anti-specific-group is racist. Being
for special advantages of any kind for a specific group is racist on its face. Many strident blacks are racist in the extreme. (Where is the NAABP -- that's Bohunk People? NAAJP? NAAWP?)
All people regardless of race, religious position, national origin, or sexual orientation should be the same before the law. And before society.
Are some white people racist? Absolutely. Are some black people racist? Absolutely. Implying that all of "them" are racist is a different statement entirely.
So, perhaps not really creating an us-v-them mentality. But treating those who would classify "us" as their "them" as correct in their classification system adopts their point of view which is that grouping by race is fine and dandy. In my opinion, it is not. Ever.