Consider first the consistent discovery that beneath their hubris and egomania, many narcissists actually suffer from chronic low self-esteem.
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At the same time as recognising their fragility, it’s worth remembering that narcissistic people do have some redeeming qualities; in some contexts they can be unusually persistent in the face of set-backs, no doubt to prove their worth to themselves and others, and there’s evidence that creative teams can benefit from having a narcissist or two to help inspire a little healthy internal competition. There’s even some evidence that with a little encouragement – asking them to take other people’s perspective – narcissists can be nudged into showing greater empathy.
Taking all these findings together there’s good reason to try, if you can, to be a little more patient – more loving even – with the narcissists in your life.
