Toni
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Who the hell ever claimed that rural people were all perfect little angels? Not me, that’s for damn sure.You live in a rural area and seem to resent the hell out of your fellow rural citizens for not thinking and behaving as you do.
You have not interpreted that correctly. I do not at all resent them for thinking and behaving differently than me. In general they do NOT think and behave differently than me. And yet, THEY RESENT ME. And that is the part I resent.
I have not painted 4x8 plywood with slurs against them and put it up by the roadside. I have not brought guns to their meetings. I have not written threatening letters and distributed them about town. I have not stuck video cameras in their faces and published it to militia members. I have not screamed at them in public meetings. I have not refused to do business with them when I find out they are Republicans, and I have not put screws in their tires.
And that is why I don’t buy for one second your tale that the humble salt of the earth rural folk never say a bad word about anybody.
You seem to live in a particularly malignant little enclave. I’m more fortunate.
I also grew up in a rural community—-nothing like the horror show you describe, at least of you were white and it helped if you were related to half the county as it turned out I was. Trust me, one of the main reasons I wanted out was because I knew about the racism and it disgusted me, as far back as first grade, which is when I became aware of a family member’s views. And racism.
A couple of years ago, I revisited my old high school with a friend from…second grade forward, who had also left, for many of the same reasons I did. We were given a nice tour of our old high school and learned that our previously virtually all white high school—in our day, a handful of Hispanic kids attended and were tolerated because the girls were good students and more importantly, at least one of the boys was a very good athlete—was now 40 percent minority, including S. Asian, Hispanics d black students. The staff was also integrated. This was an enormous positive change for our community—which has unfortunately lost a lot of its rural character, which has largely consisted of warehouses and fulfillment centers replacing much of the farm land.
Trust me, I realized in my school days that I was treated well because of the color of my skin and because my older sibling was an excellent student —and because of my last name. Small communities can be like that—certain families are known to be very hard working and extremely honest. Heaven knows those were the only advantages my family had…
Note: I don’t bemoan the loss of farmland so much as feel disgusted by the fulfillment centers which looked like oversized calf huts that I think are inhumane for calves, much less for human beings. Cheap land and little regulation has allowed the proliferation of such centers and warehouses, the nicer of which are brutalist and windowless concrete boxes. I find this a horrific way to treat human beings.