Emily Lake
Might be a replicant
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This is one of those things that I doubt anyone has done any research on... simply because it's pretty much the way it has always been. Consider:The bolded is my main gripe with the article. The article hinges on the point that women are 'socialized' to ignore their pain, but where's the evidence?
The first time you have sex, you should expect it to hurt some... but don't worry, you'll get past it.
Sure, if you're not all the way aroused, entry can be painful or uncomfortable, but as things get moving, you'll moisten up and it'll be okay.
If you're petite, that means it'll be a nice tight squeeze for your man - and he'll really enjoy that. And since women are supposed to really crave giant enormous penises, it's just expected that you'll occasionally end up with your cervix being beat up some... we'll try to adjust a bit so the bruising of that particular organ isn't as bad.
These are essentially things I have actually been told by actual men in the course of actual sex. At no point have I ever told a guy "Well, I understand that this hurts your penis, but don't worry about it, once we get going you'll enjoy it, it'll work out just fine!"
Oh, and let's add to that... the approach that women don't have to have an orgasm to enjoy sex, it's okay if a woman doesn't climax. But hey, men get blue-balls, so it's really important that they get full satisfaction so that they aren't left in pain