Lol, I actually called out my colleagues for this. We've been doing a substantial amount of planning lately, as our teams are in the midst of a lot of role transition and cultural change. My director is a white male, and my managerial colleagues are: 3 white males, 1 asian male, 2 white females (including me) and 1 indian female. Our roles are diverse, covering a spectrum of DBA and infrastructure management, system and enterprise architecture, data science, analysis, and reporting. I noticed that in all of our meetings, it was always one of the three women who was asked to take notes on the white board, or send out a summary, or something similar. I (not being a wilting violet as expected of my fragile gender) quite blatantly suggested that maybe one of the males in the room could take on that secretarial role for a change. The immediate response was "well, our handwriting is worse" to which I responded "then you clearly need more practice, don't you?". The end result was marginally satisfactory, although still not a win - now our office administrator attends our planning sessions in order to take notes. Our office administrator, of course, is female
Yeah, I've run across this too. And when challenged on it, I hear "oh well, their voices aren't as shrill..." or similar such crap.
3. We have one person who is a relatively new hire in my area. One day, one of his former co-workers from his previous work unit stopped by to say hi, ask how things were going. New guy was showing him around, telling him about what we do, etc. and introducing us to his old work buddy. New guy started to opine that he didn't know why I even bothered having a job since my husband had a nice job teaching at a university. Note: the new guy is nominally my subordinate.
Egads, that's not at all appropriate!