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Ashley Madison hack

It isn't clear that the "revelation" that a pedophile also likes adult women other than his wife is that damaging.
I do not think his behavior at 14 shows that he is a "pedophile".
True, just a sex offender who preyed on girls in their teens and younger, so not necessarily a pedophile. I'm glad you brought that up because we wouldn't want to mislabel this sex offender as a "pedophile" if he was molesting mainly underaged children between 10 and 14.
Also, have the accounts in question been conclusively linked to him? Could have been somebody using a fake name.
Pretty much yes. Shouldn't you be out defending Jared or something? You know, demanding to see the video or something?
 
True, just a sex offender who preyed on girls in their teens and younger, so not necessarily a pedophile. I'm glad you brought that up because we wouldn't want to mislabel this sex offender as a "pedophile" if he was molesting mainly underaged children between 10 and 14.
You are forgetting that he was a child himself, and that the girls were close to his own age. There is no evidence he still likes young girls. While he should have been held responsible, exaggerating is not the way to go.
And yeah, technically it would be "hebephilia" even if he were still attracted to girls that age.
Pretty much yes. Shouldn't you be out defending Jared or something? You know, demanding to see the video or something?
No.
 
You are forgetting that he was a child himself, and that the girls were close to his own age.
High School vs Grade school isn't close in age.
There is no evidence he still likes young girls. While he should have been held responsible, exaggerating is not the way to go.
And yeah, technically it would be "hebephilia" even if he were still attracted to girls that age.
Labels are really important! I'm glad you are keeping us straight on this proper term for the sex offender.
 
High School vs Grade school isn't close in age.
There is no evidence he still likes young girls. While he should have been held responsible, exaggerating is not the way to go.
And yeah, technically it would be "hebephilia" even if he were still attracted to girls that age.
Labels are really important! I'm glad you are keeping us straight on this proper term for the sex offender.

Some of the girls were quite close to his age which was about 14. Too young to have consensual sex himself. I don't think of him as a pedophile, although he was clearly very wrong, inappropriate, he as and likely is still very confused about sex and sexuality.

The Duggars creep me out. A lot. The philosophy that they espouse infuriates me. Substituting ideology for information is only the tip of the iceberg.

FWIW, I think the Duggar parents attempted to do the right thing by getting counseling for all involved. They also took some steps to prevent further incidents . I don't have much or really any sympathy for the parents except that any parent would be overwhelmed, and aghast at the situation. They let their ideology dictate their solutions. If we are honest, we all do. I despise their ideology which helped create the situation.

Counseling was the right move. Unfortunately they used poor criteria when selecting the counselor and neglected to include the entire family who all clearly need serious help.

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High School vs Grade school isn't close in age.
There is no evidence he still likes young girls. While he should have been held responsible, exaggerating is not the way to go.
And yeah, technically it would be "hebephilia" even if he were still attracted to girls that age.
Labels are really important! I'm glad you are keeping us straight on this proper term for the sex offender.

Some of the girls were quite close to his age which was about 14. Too young to have consensual sex himself. I don't think of him as a pedophile, although he was clearly very wrong, inappropriate, he as and likely is still very confused about sex and sexuality.

The Duggars creep me out. A lot. The philosophy that they espouse infuriates me. Substituting ideology for information is only the tip of the iceberg.

FWIW, I think the Duggar parents attempted to do the right thing by getting counseling for all involved. They also took some steps to prevent further incidents . I don't have much or really any sympathy for the parents except that any parent would be overwhelmed, and aghast at the situation. They let their ideology dictate their solutions. If we are honest, we all do. I despise their ideology which helped create the situation.

Counseling was the right move. Unfortunately they used poor criteria when selecting the counselor and neglected to include the entire family who all clearly need serious help.
 
Wait, who is Jared and what has Jared done? I saw some comment about "Jared's wife" saying something and was puzzled by that, too. Googling "duggar" is a difficult task, I tried. My eyes were burning and I had to stop.
 
Wait, who is Jared and what has Jared done? I saw some comment about "Jared's wife" saying something and was puzzled by that, too. Googling "duggar" is a difficult task, I tried. My eyes were burning and I had to stop.
Think Subway.
 
High School vs Grade school isn't close in age.
Labels are really important! I'm glad you are keeping us straight on this proper term for the sex offender.
Some of the girls were quite close to his age which was about 14.
And at least one was in grade school and not close to his age. There is still reason to be the youngest was also involved.

FWIW, I think the Duggar parents attempted to do the right thing by getting counseling for all involved.
Yup, take the kid to some other quack that'll help keep a lid on this was a good idea.
They also took some steps to prevent further incidents. I don't have much or really any sympathy for the parents except that any parent would be overwhelmed, and aghast at the situation. They let their ideology dictate their solutions.
Ideology or network programming contract?
 
Ashley Madison's brand will probably be all that is damaged. The Christian Taliban will just rout around the damage.

Their damage will be in the anti-hack controls, which they can fix just like target. Otherwise, I'm thinking lots and lots of free advertising for them!
My understanding is that the website said that all identifying info was scrubbed regularly. Apparently they didn't keep that promise, and in an area where secrecy is important to their clients, this breach could adversely affect their business model.
 
I find it strange that there are so many different degrees of murder and manslaughter, but not many degrees of statutory rape or child molestation. Having the same punishment for a 22 year old with a 16 year old as a 30 year old compared to a 12 year old makes no sense.
 
Ashley Madison's brand will probably be all that is damaged. The Christian Taliban will just rout around the damage.

Their damage will be in the anti-hack controls, which they can fix just like target. Otherwise, I'm thinking lots and lots of free advertising for them!

Or maybe people will wake up are realize there are no magical "anti-hack controls". You can follow best practices and that is about it. I keep thinking maybe people will learn that putting sensitive stuff online is a BAD IDEA. Please check out this info graphic: http://www.informationisbeautiful.net/visualizations/worlds-biggest-data-breaches-hacks/
 
Curious. Is Asheley Madison an actual person or is it a character they created?
Here you go:
Wikipedia said:
Ashley Madison is a Canadian-based online dating service and social networking service marketed to people who are married or in a committed relationship. Its slogan is "Life is short. Have an affair."[4] The website was launched in 2001.[2][5] The name of the site was created from two popular female names, "Ashley" and "Madison".[4]
 
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