I appreciate you saying that, though not so much the attitude.
I appreciate you giving me some slack.
The “attitude” (which is honest - I make no effort to hide it) is a direct outgrowth of years of frustration with people euphemizing the problem with Republican fascism.
I wonder if your own unusually even keel might be the product of a lifetime of threat evasion, necessitated by this society’s collective racism.
I understand the frustration. To clarify, my stance against political assassinations isn’t about keeping myself safe or playing it calm for survival. The deaths of people like Martin Luther King and Malcolm X are why I feel the way I do. Their loss robbed society of critical voices and cut off dialogue that needed to keep happening. That’s what makes assassination such a deep threat to democracy.
What I find especially troubling is the irony here: Kirk himself dismissed empathy, and I disagreed with him. Showing indifference to his death, or to the pain felt by those close to him and/or followed him, would be the very lack of empathy that I've criticized about him.
I abhor people who seek to cause harm for no reason beyond ideology or racism (there's more). Their actions can be monstrous, but they are not literal monsters, they are human beings, molded by the paths they’ve walked and the lessons they’ve absorbed. If we refuse to see them as human, we risk becoming what we claim to oppose.
Speaking as a Black man, to me having empathy doesn’t mean excusing or tolerating racism. It means refusing to let someone else’s hate dictate how I see them & how I see myself. No one is born that way; they were taught it. Simply recognizing that makes it easier for me not to dehumanize people. And that refusal to dehumanize is exactly what too many of the people I oppose fail to practice themselves.
I've heard the argument that Kirk’s killing is the self-fulfillment of his own words about the Second Amendment, that he himself argued gun deaths were the price of freedom. But if you opposed that position when he was alive, you should oppose it now as well. Otherwise, you’ve abandoned principle for spite. Using his statement to justify his assassination is using the same logic you claimed to reject. If gun deaths are not acceptable, then his death should not be acceptable either.
For me, the principle is simple: violence should be met with violence, but words should be met with words. If someone comes with fists or bullets, violent resistance is justified. But if someone only comes with words, no matter how offensive, the answer has to stay in the realm of words. Once we start accepting killings over speech, we’ve crossed into legitimizing the same silencing that took away great leaders. We also end up helping to create a world where every conversation is held at gunpoint. That’s not the future I want for anyone, least of all my children.
I can take words as they come, and I’m ready to defend myself if violence follows, just not the kind that comes from a rooftop over 100 fucking yards away.