Toni
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- Basic Beliefs
- Peace on Earth, goodwill towards all
I understand that you are writing about your own personal way of coping with knowledge of deaths you cannot prevent of children you do not know.Here, let me break your brain.Well, I would suggest there's also a world of difference between not caring if a child dies and not caring if an adult dies, that's my opinion though.That may be, and if so that would reflect poorly on him indeed. But there is a world of difference between saying someone is indifferent to someone else being killed and suggesting that 'all people in category X DESERVE to die violet deaths' !
I don't care if some random child half a continent away dies. And neither do you. At best, you have some philosophical notion of such a death possibly being an injustice - and you care about justice. But you don't know the kid, you have no personal connection to them. You don't actually really care. You're not grieving for that child's death - at best you're using that child's death as a hammer so you can pound on whatever point you're trying to win. But you don't feel any real emotion for the death of that child.
Seriously, it's vital to mental well being and personal honesty to understand that you can care about a cause or about justice without actually caring about the individual people involved. If you can't maintain that separation, it'll drive you mad.
But your personal way of coping is not universally held nor is it the only way to cope. The fact that you cannot imagine others feeling differently is, imo, a personal failing. Not a criticism of your way of handling tings but a criticism of th e failure of your imagination and your inability to see through any lens other than your personal lens.