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Those sentences really don't go together.I'd rather not continue this particular line if discussion. ...
What policy makers? Aren't you all for individual businesses deciding for themselves, within the law, how to best accommodate their customers?
No, of course I'm not. That would imply that back in the days when catering to your racist customers' prejudices by excluding blacks was a common thing, it was the right thing to do, And it would imply that today businesses should knuckle under to the "heckler's veto", and should resolve social disputes in favor of whichever side is most stubborn.
You appear to have taken me for a libertarian. I'm an infidel. I'm against all religions, not just those of the left. What Wilson said about communism -- "Great theory, wrong species." -- is equally true of libertarianism.
Um, because taking things away from people riles them up more than having grown up accustomed to never having had them.See above - I've never heard a feminist critique of non-segregated restrooms in those places were they always existed, why would it become a feminist issue when a few more places decide to have them?
I didn't say that was your preferred solution; I said that was the problem created by the progressives' having been put in charge of this issue, and that I don't think most American women think doors are an adequate solution to it.So you're proposing to go back to an idealised past 'when the men using women's rooms were pre-op transsexuals fulfilling their "live as a woman for a year" requirement', and insinuating that my preferred solution involves "every non-op man who self-IDs as gender dysphoric" going to the ladies' room? I don't know where you're getting that from.
Sorry, trying not to continue this particular line of discussion beyond answering your questions, but I can't let that stand. What you say "seems to be Emily's position" is not Emily's position.We wouldn't be having this argument if all that Emily or others in that camp demanded was that people with gender dysphoria only known to those they share it with, who would be inconspicuous as cis-males, better use the men's - that's exactly my position! I think I specifically said that, to the extent this needs to be regulated at all, the relevant bisection should be "go wherever you'll cause the least fuss". I was talking about people using HRT or (not fully passing) post-ops individuals or people with partial androgen insensitivity. People who wouldn't easily pass for cis-women when you look closely but who'd arguably stand out more in a group of typical cis-males. Saying "the women's is for women only, and women are people with a uterus and a vagina" which seems to be Emily's position, would have them sent to the men's, and saying that's not an optimal solution implies nothing about where merely self-ID'd transwomen should go.
From "if allowing people who are not unambiguously women into the ladies' causes discomfort or reduces the feeling of safety of some cis women, send those weirdos to the gents'". We could consider each different category of people who are not unambiguously women on a case-by-case basis, do some sort of cost/benefit analysis of how much each sort causes discomfort or reduces the feeling of safety of some women and their actual safety and what the consequences are of sending them to the gents', and poll women as to which weirdoes they want to let into the ladies' and which they want to send to the gents'.I don't know where you're getting that from. Can you elaborate?False dilemma fallacy. You talk as though "people who are not unambiguously women" are interchangeable parts and we have no option for dealing with their needs other than one-size-fits-all.I will say, however, that what you're saying did apply to Emily, mutatis mutandi as the Romans say: if allowing people who are not unambiguously women into the ladies' causes discomfort or reduces the feeling of safety of some cis women, send those weirdos to the gents' and everyone else and their needs can ....
Give it a rest. I pretended no such thing. Conducting polls would be perfectly reasonable way to find out how numerous they are.Emily isn't "women". Emily is Emily. There sure are other women you think like Emily, but neither of us knows how numerous they are and pretending otherwise is dishonest.We men are perfectly capable of letting women tell us which classes of "people who are not unambiguously women" they want to let into the ladies' rooms and which they want to send to the gents'. But taking instructions from women seems to be an affront to our masculinity.
Both. My expectation is that in the absence of an explicit social choice, the common social practice of letting the most stubborn group win is going to lead to public facilities and businesses choosing to abandon sexed facilities in the hope of just making the issue go away, solving their own problems by throwing their female clientele under the bus.Are we talking about giving up sex/ gender segregated restrooms, or are we talking about letting (some) trans women into the ladies'?
Sure thing: see above, where you said "trans women". That category includes "boys visually indistinguishable from typical boys, with gender dysphoria known only to those they share it with"; ergo, you were talking about them. I have issues with your rhetoric.If you remember any place I talked about "typical boys, with gender dysphoria known only to those they share it with", I'd appreciate a link or quote."Make other people's lives a little worse". Belittling the harm to the people you propose to throw under the bus is rarely a sign that you're achieving the do-least-harm solution. Girls are skipping school, or dehydrating themselves, to avoid having to use the boys' rooms now labeled "gender neutral", but it's boys visually indistinguishable from typical boys, with gender dysphoria known only to those they share it with, who are "forced into a life of seclusion".Whether the do-least-harm solution is sending trans women and people with partial androgen insensitivity to the ladies, or to the gents, or letting them pick based on their individual experience of where they are most welcome, or forcing them into a life or seclusion by barring them from both its an empirical question. Whether we care about them enough to implement measures that will make their life (much) better even if they make other people's life a little worse is a political question. The answer tu neither is fully determined by our understanding of the biology of sex - which I personally find is great because it allows us to discuss the matter as a apolitical one even if we disagree about the peripherally related political questions.
The cases of this that I've read about are all in the U.S., true, so they no doubt didn't have proper doors. But I remain skeptical that doors are enough to make other countries' schoolgirls' reactions all that different from America's'.I also wonder whether you have any reason to believe that "girls skipping school, or dehydrating themselves" to avoid sharing a restroom with 3 individuals out of 1000 pupils who self-ID as girls though you wouldn't guess is a thing that exists in the presence of doors anywhere in the world.