Jarhyn
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ETA some are still active either as crybullies or doing as you say and only holding up a community for rhetorical purposes, but the worst of them have gotten banned.I wasn't referring to you there. The "in this thread" qualifier was attached to "women with different positions", not to "men with a history of advocating strongly anti-feminist positions", those are only claimed to live "in discussions like this". We've had a handful of posters who regularly started threads with the general tone of "feminists bad bad" over in PD but would go all feminist when talking about Muslims and trans people. Not sure if they're still active, I avoid that place.I thought I'd repeatedly made it clear I'm not in the "keep the trannies out" camp but the "respect women's preferences" camp, and that I was reporting the preferences of the women who've shared their opinions with me. To whatever extent women want to let the people you call "trannies" in, they have my blessing. If the women in my monkeysphere are an atypical minority and most women are less upset by self-ID practices than the ones I know, so be it -- my friends don't own the world's ladies' rooms -- but I will not take any man's word for it that that is the case.Maybe you weren't. Bomb was.I wasn't speaking as if this is a universal issue. Note that I said I was tired of it. I suppose that me referring to myself in the third person was confusing, but I really thought it was pretty clear.I'm seeing a lot of different positions among women in discussions like this, including in this thread. I'm also seeing a lot of men who are quite vocal in the "keep the trannies out" camp, some of them with a history of advocating strongly anti-feminist positions on other topics. Painting this as an issue where (all or nearly all) want one thing and men push against them is either naive or dishonest.Emily is rather tired of men telling women what women should be happy with, rather than actually granting us the basic humanity of forming our own opinions without male oversight.Emily isn't "women". Emily is Emily. There sure are other women you think like Emily, but neither of us knows how numerous they are and pretending otherwise is dishonest.
As far as "a history of advocating strongly anti-feminist positions on other topics", if you're talking about me, I don't know what history or positions you're referring to. It's true I'm not a feminist, but let me be very clear on that point. In my long-ago formative youth, there wasn't yet any "feminism" in the general meme-scape; there was just women's liberation. Likewise, there weren't any "sexists", just male chauvinist pigs, nor "racists", just bigots. It was a saner time. This modern insistence on turning everything and its brother into an "ism" is a pathology. I am absolutely a women's-libber. If you think I have a history of advocating strongly anti-women's-lib positions on any topic, show your work.