bilby
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Giving money to beggars might make you feel good, but being put in a position where they feel it's necessary to beg makes people feel like shit.Lets not forget that tipping is also for the tipper. We do it because it makes us feel better, maybe generous, maybe that we can afford to be able to tip. I will often give money to those folks standing on street corners with cardboard signs upon which is scribbled their misfortunes. There is empathy involved.
It's not a good thing for the beggars. They would rather not have to be asking you for money.
And that likely applies to tipped staff too. They're no doubt delighted if someone is a generous tipper; But that's embedded in an overall lack of dignity in being expected to work for an unknown remuneration that depends entirely on the largess of each customer.