Why does it make you feel bad if a woman adjusts her clothing to be less revealing when she passes you?
because I take it as an accusation of being someone I am not. Now that I think about it more, I have never noticed this with complete strangers on the street... like a woman just passing by... I only notice this happen in the work place... like at the beginning of a conversation.
I think maybe that is why... I don't strike up conversation with strangers, but I do with coworkers... so the passer-by is not being approached by me.. even if I give a quick glance in their direction (of their eyes) and a half-smile acknowledging their existence and offering a non-verbal "good morning" I don't get that behavior.
I am starting to feel less annoyed about this after listening to some responders here.
Since I am realizing that it is pretty much only people that know me in the workplace, and pretty much only when being engaged in conversation... I am thinking maybe (just maybe) they think I am hot and want to make sure they are looking attractive to me by adjusting their clothing.
Naw, that ain't it either. Its a cover-up for sure.