But have you ever actually been attacked by a black person, for absolutely no reason other than that you are white?
I watched someone directly in front of me being attacked by black people because they were white, yes, and have been harassed by black people because I am white on several occasions.
random unwarranted attacks by black people do not happen in a materially and statistically different way than they do by white people
This is not my lived experience.
Every woman who has participated in this thread has been assaulted by a man - and we weren't assaulted for an external reason, we were assaulted by men because we are women
No, you were assaulted by men because they were assholes on testosterone.
I have been threatened by women and men in equal measure over the course of my life, more often by black people than white people.
Outside of the course of direct violent crime, in the realm of mere threats, the threats were shaped differently but they were no less equivalent as threats.
I can readily identify that trans people, who I run into at much higher rates than the general public does, have never threatened me with violence... Though one did threaten me with a false rape accusation. I'll give you even money on what gender they were.
I don't know a single male person who has not been threatened, assaulted, or raped by a person on testosterone.
I would be hard pressed to think of a single time I have been physically assaulted by someone who is not on testosterone.
I HAVE been SOCIALLY assaulted by people on estrogen, however.
These are simple facts.
People on testosterone do not threaten you because they were born with a penis or because they are "men" or because you are women. They do it because they have poor judgement made worse by exposure to testosterone, and they do it to everyone.
It's just most people on testosterone don't attribute it to them being male, because there's no identifiable difference to assume as the motive. Because they are also generally on testosterone and a relatively equal physical match, they don't make much of it.
It's the testosterone that is the major differentiable causal contributor to this violent behavior, and I can see it in painfully stark relief as someone who is not on testosterone, and have direct visibility on the kinds of thoughts that happen while exposed to it because of past experience.
Your sex does not determine whether you will be harassed, assaulted, or otherwise targeted. It only determines the shape of the harassment, assault, or targeted violence.