People are used to conducting their lives on the basis of implicit communication.
examples?
Please use one of the examples already provided.
none have been provided.
He usually comes down the stairs from the shower, and waggles his twig and giggle-berries in my general direction while asking "Is it sexy time now?"
To which I usually reply "Oh baby! Sexy, sexy!" And promptly follow him up to the boudoir.
This is after 20+ years together.
Now that is explicit
No, it isn't. It's implicit, based on a mutual understanding. Exactly what the proposals ban as assault. That's the problem.
. No, it was explicit. By his actions and words he made it clear he wanted sex. By her words and actions, she made it clear she agreed. Could either of them have changed their minds once upstairs? Sure. That is why ONGOING consent is needed. But that exchange as described meets the very definition of "explicit"
No, it doesn't. This is point at which we disagree. You seem to think that anything that is blatant or obvious is explicit and thus covered by the rules. That all they really do is require people to be certain.
That's not what they say. Explicit permission for each stage of intimacy means that at each stage of intimacy you have to get explicit permission for that stage. Jiggling at someone is an obviously invitation to something, but it's not explicit what it is an invitation for. Someone is perfectly entitled to jiggle at someone to encourage them to them to kiss them, or to take their clothes off, or to have penetrative sex, or to invite them to a threesome with their sister. But the jiggle by itself is not an invitation to sex, it's just an invitation, and it's ambiguous what exactly it is an invitation for.
What other meaning would you attribute to her husband waggling "his twig and giggle-berries in [her] general direction while asking "Is it sexy time now?""
Mutual masturbation? Oral sex? Naked wrestling? The point is not whether it is reasonable to attribute a meaning to the gesture, the point is that you are attributing a meaning, rather than it being explicit.
What other meaning would you attribute to her response: ""Oh baby! Sexy, sexy!" And promptly follow him up to the boudoir."
That could be anything from an invitation to make out to full sex. I'm not saying it's not fairly obvious, given the context. I'm saying it doesn't qualify under the proposed rules, because you're not explicitly seeking permission for each stage of intimacy. That's why the proposals are unworkable.