Going to a room together isn't a stage of intimacy at all, that I'm aware of? The impression I got was that the example was being presented as consent to sex.<snip>
And it only runs counter to the requirement of ongoing consent to be gained at every stage if you assume that that's the last bit of communication they're having. So, not for the first time, where did you get that idea from?
I'm not ignoring it, but I don't see how it helps. I'm arguing that the standard requires people to do far more than in the example. You appear to be saying the same.Plus, you keep ignoring that here we are talking about two people who know each other very well. That poorly translates to hook-ups between almost-strangers in the first place. That doesn't make it irrelevant, but it means that the people we are actually talking about need to be much more explicit about everything than them to avoid serious misunderstandings.
No. The standard requires explicit consent for everything you do.
No, actually it doesn't. It requires consent for each stage of doing things.
This is not the first time you seem to be playing word games. If you aren't, can you provide a scenario where the two things actually differ?
A requirement for ongoing consent means that you have to stop if your partner is no longer consenting, say if they indicate they are uncomfortable or unhappy with what's going on. A requirement for consent in advance at each stage means that you have to stop if your partner communicates to you, unambiguously, that your permission for this stage of intimacy has been withdraw. So if you're giving someone oral sex, and they start to orgasm, they can hold you in place until they've finished, and that doesn't break the standard. Because you already consented, and you're going to have a job indicating an explicit withdrawl of that consent with your mouth full.
And the difference isn't a word game. Throughout this discussion you've consistently disagreed with my stance on the proposed standard while making reference to concepts that do not appear in the proposed standard. I'm more than happy to adopt on-going consent as a standard, but it isn't what was proposed.