Focusing on what YOU WANT, and YOUR GOALS is selfish if you where wondering.
Not necessarily. Focusing on what you want at the expense of what other people want/needs is selfish. Focusing on what you want in a socially conscious way is healthy/good (according to the Vedas). While ignoring what you want is unhealthy. I should find some quotes to back this up. Sorry for not doing that yet.
And the Christ never instructed any to do any thing out of fear.
Ok, here's a bunch of quotes of Jesus making threats. Ie, trying to make people act out of fear. To paraphrase, you better do what I tell you, or else. It's not an appeal to reason. It's not an appeal to ethics/morality. It's just a threat. Do this because I'm telling you to and for no other reason.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+3&version=KJV
3:7 But when he saw many of the Pharisees and Sadducees come to his baptism, he said unto them, O generation of vipers, who hath warned you to flee from the wrath to come?
10 And now also the axe is laid unto the root of the trees: therefore every tree which bringeth not forth good fruit is hewn down, and cast into the fire.
3:12 Whose fan is in his hand, and he will throughly purge his floor, and gather his wheat into the garner; but he will burn up the chaff with unquenchable fire.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+8&version=KJV
12 But the children of the kingdom shall be cast out into outer darkness: there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.
Further down in this same section Jesus tells his disciples to board a boat in rough seas. Jesus has a nap. The disciples wake him and are jumpy. His reply is "yea, of little faith". He then magically makes the sea calm. This isn't an appeal to what is healthy or ethical. This is an appeal to ignore what you feel is right and simply obey anyway. Further down he has a heard of pigs commit suicide as a threat to the pig herders "possessed by the devil". How isn't this a threat? Do what I want or I'll kill your pigs.
Let's try another book. Mark
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Mark+6
11 And whosoever shall not receive you, nor hear you, when ye depart thence, shake off the dust under your feet for a testimony against them. Verily I say unto you, It shall be more tolerable for Sodom and Gomorrha in the day of judgment, than for that city.
How isn't this a threat? If a city won't "receive" the disciples the city will be destroyed.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke+1&version=KJV
20 And, behold, thou shalt be dumb, and not able to speak, until the day that these things shall be performed, because thou believest not my words, which shall be fulfilled in their season.
Zacharias had the nerve to ask Jesus what was going on. He was made mute simply for asking. How isn't that a threat? Do what I want (obey blindly) or else you might get a physical disability.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Luke+12&version=KJV
Here's a pretty clear one.
5 But I will forewarn you whom ye shall fear: Fear him, which after he hath killed hath power to cast into hell; yea, I say unto you, Fear him.
This one is telling us to fear God straight up. The motivation for obedience is fear.
I can go on. I found threats for disobedience in every single book. It's everywhere in the Bible. Do what I want or else. Nobody can be so blind they can't see it.
Shame isn't some make believe thing to keep religious folk in check. It is a natural indicator that one has done is is contemplating doing something against the very nature of their being.
That makes no sense. If something goes against the nature of my being I wouldn't need being told about it. It would be intuitive. Jesus said that just thinking about having sex with someone you're not married to is adultery. Let's ignore the obvious. That it isn't adultery. Let's focus on the shame of it. Here Jesus is using imposed shame as a tool of social control.
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=matthew+5&version=KJV
28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
29 And if thy right eye offend thee, pluck it out, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
30 And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell.
Nothing to do with reward or attainment.
Heaven is used as a carrot. And Hell is used as a threat. It's all over the Bible. Do you really need passages quoted?
Of course most Christians may refute this.
I doubt most Christians has read the Bible.
I have yet to study the Vedas and may never. But based on the Bhagavad Gita one is to relinquish self in order to understand and follow their true direction in life, not be indifferent.
Peace
What was the point?
Oh yeah; that the abrahamic religions and Hinduism are different in their beliefs, motives, and teachings based on the bible and Gita. I haven't seen anything to support that yet. Not in my own reading or in the conversation here.
I am fervently listening though, as I am not against the idea, just that what I have found seems to be quite the opposite from that claim.
But it's not about relinquishing self. It's about ridding yourself of mental bagage that just get in the way and fuck your life up for you. But you seem to have gotten the gist. It's about picking the battles you can win. And rising above the one's you can't.
I think it's more helpful to see the Bhagavad Ghita as a self help book. While the Bible is a legal book. Both the Bible and the Bhagavad Ghita belong to the same genre of books. "morality tales". These were hugely popular in the antique world. The number one genre. The Bible evolved from this tradition as well. But the Bible has gone beyond it. This is something different entirely. This is a law book. The Bible is a blend of morality tales and the Code of Hammurabi.
You can take the advice from the Hindu gods or leave it. The gods won't care. The Abrahamic God cares like a mother fucker and will come down like a ton of bricks if you don't obey.
I'll go digging to find you some Bhagavad Ghita quotes. It's just harder than the Bible. I'll get back to you.