Not as sad as some white guy claiming he has lived the same experience as a black woman so he knows what she cannot be mistaken or confused. Really, do you read what you write?
No, I did not claim I had lived the life of this particular black woman, or any black woman. I claimed I have lived through
the same type of exchange she reported. I've been in her position, in this context, on the 'where do you come from' conversation.
But, you knew that.
The point you’re missing (is this where we accuse you of obviously knowing better, as you did for Fulani?)
Is that the implications of that exchange for you do not have the history of the same exchange for her.
Do you not know that?
If anything, Fulani has been on the receiving end of such exchanges more times than I have. She is older than I am and in a more heavily Anglo country than Australia, and her name and skin colour marks her as not indigenous to Britain. For me, my non-Angloness is recognised usually only after someone hears or sees my name. So, I would expect her to
even sooner recognise what Hussey was asking her.
Fulani chose to act as if she didn't understand what Hussey was asking her, in my opinion. She made a mountain out of a molehill. I do not believe enquiring after somebody's cultural and ethnic heritage is racist, but I do believe Hussey should have recognised far sooner Fulani did not want to answer, and her persistence in her line of questioning was unwelcome and rude,.