credoconsolans
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I haven't seen the movie, but from what you've described it sounds like a situation in which a person made an awful yet also understandable decision.
do you understand at all that per the movie he waited almost 2 years before waking her up?Yes, his actions are understandable, given the situation which he was in. They're just not forgivable. He sentenced an innocent woman to die in the cold emptiness of space because he was lonely. While one can understand his motivations for doing so, he's still the main villain of the movie, not the hero or the acceptable love interest.
do you also understand that even a first year psychology student could tell you that most humans would be pants-on-head retarded batshit INSANE after being totally socially isolated for almost 2 years?
there's a point at which pouty-lipped ethical shaming simply no longer applies, though ultimately Passengers is just a rom-com with a sci-fi background and rom-coms in the US have a really bad track record of portraying the shitty things men do to women on a regular basis as romantic gestures.
but it certainly wasn't any worse than basically anything any male has ever done in any rom-com in the history of ever, so at the very least the context around the cliche was a bit different.
which is actually slightly interesting in a very mildly subversive way wherein the whole backdrop of the film just served to rationalize a guy doing the kind of shit guys do to women in rom-coms and have a real reason for it besides "psychopathic behavior is romantic."
It's not even understandable, IMO because drowning is a bad analogy. He wasn't dying. Not even close to it. He was just horny and lonely. You saw he chose a YOUNG woman and not say an older one, right? A poet and not say, a crew woman or another engineer? He had every intention of pushing his bodily needs on her. He basically selected her out of a catalog to be his sex slave.
He waited less than a year. He spent some time thinking about it. So he was already in high gear to fuck up someone else's life for his own selfish needs.
By the time she found out, they'd been together a year. THEN it was 2 years.
I just meant that it's natural for a drowning man to clutch at someone else. Selfish, sure, and potentially harmful to both, definitely. But to me, it's perfectly natural. Am I remembering right that he had spent a year in what is basically solitary confinement?
More like being alone on a deserted luxury island.