If only her parents had felt the same way.
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Affirmative action is taking actions based on the race of the people involved. Textbook definition of racism. You just think it's good racism.
Self defence is taking actions intended to physically restrain or injure another person. Textbook definition of assault and deprivation of liberty. You just think it's good assault and deprivation of liberty.
And of course, so does everyone else who has thought it through. If the effect of an assault is that a person need to defend himself to avoid further injury, then he should be allowed to do so - although there may be plenty of room for debate about how far he might reasonably go. And reasonable self-defense isn't called assault or deprivation of liberty, because that would be misleading - just as misleading as it would be to refer to Affirmative Action as 'racism'.
If the effect of past racism is that a person needs assistance to achieve what they might have achieved had the racism not occurred, then that assistance should be provided. It may be technically racism, but it's no less justified than is self defence - I can't just walk up to you in the street and punch you, but I am perfectly justified in punching you if you just stabbed me.
So your a hypocrite?