Having sex with 5-year olds and sheep is someone's idea of "ordinary behavior" too. Should we eliminate laws against that too?First of all, no one is "criminalizing ordinary behavior". Assuming that "no means yes" and that "she's just being coy" is not "ordinary behavior". All the policies under discussion do is to clarify what IS "ordinary behavior".
Well you must be criminalising someone's idea of ordinary behaviour, or else why would it need to be clarified? The example that was given was too people getting drunk and sleeping with each other, which is certainly quite common. And saying that there is never any need to covince someone to sleep with you suggests that the behaviour that is being criminalised is very normal indeed..
What is being clarified is what constitutes actual consent. If you* are doing it wrong, it isn't and shouldn't be considered "ordinary" and yes, the policy is directed at you*. Moreover, there is nothing in the policy that says you can't "convince" someone to sleep with you, but if your version of "convincing" is actually "pressuring" or "coercing" then this policy is necessary for you.
* general "you" not "you"=Togo