Hopefully, too, with the slut-walk and similar discussions added to this, gender roles will move.
I'd like my daugther, when she reaches appropriate age, to be able to tell a boy she likes him without being seen as a slut (and possibly raped by his idiot friend), instead of having to stay put and hope he gets the hint (and him, not his idiot friend).
And if my boys turn as shy as I was (which they seem to be on the path to, sadly), I'd like them to have clear signals instead of memories of wasted opportunities (or worse, turn into bitter misogynists).
Basically, by challenging consent and rape "culture" before we challenge our social norms on sexuality, I feel like we're going in the wrong order. The kind of discussion we're having in this thread would be so easier with a healthy view of sexuality. But maybe that's how we can start attacking the problem: because rape prevention is a nearly consensual project, it could be a good "foot in the door" for a more comprehensive change of standards (in addition to the good rape prevention in itself does, of course, not trying to dismiss the subject here).
What I found interesting about the actual policies quoted in this thread (particularly California's) is that it is just as much about encouraging exactly the type of gender sexual equality you (& I) want to see. The gender neutral language encourages the girls to speak up just as much as it encourages the boys to make sure they have consent.