Right, you just want them to roll over and die quietly so Putin will stop making scary noises.
Why not try looking for solutions (- NATO advisers) rather than ask for more deadly armament?
Here's the problem: Russian soldiers outnumber Ukranian soldiers 3 to 1. And the Russians are advancing. Asking them to pretty please stop attacking isn't going to work. Western arms slowed down in late 23 and early 24 (just as you recommended); and Russians continued to advance, continued to steal more land, continued to kill more Ukrainians. I think that the west needs far harsher economic sanctions on Russia. We're going to need to increase pressure on allies or economic partners who help Russia. Russian doesn't care about losing young lives in their war. I don't think that the war will end (ie: Russia won't agree to real peace concessions); until the oligarchs running Russia are hurt economically.