Masturbation and the "normal" person

[funcouple]

I dropped my wife at the airport earlier for yet another weekend sales trip, I know that my day will end (or maybe all night) with me watching some good porn and stimulating myself and I am relatively sure (ok, positive) my wife will be doing the same in her hotel room. Since we both admitted to each other early in our relationship that we were both addicted to sex (good thing we are married to each other) this type of excessive solo simulation fun may not be normal for the average person. Is there any way we can have a honest and open discussion about self pleasuring and the pros and cons? Is there such a thing as doing it too much (or too little)? I guess since I have admitted to all of you that I jack off on a (maybe more than) regular basis, I will probably get my share of shit but as they say, 80% of people masturbate and the other 20% lie about doing it. I am fairly sure my wife will get involved in this discussion later on today when she gets to where she is heading. You can be sure we will have more to say about this later, but right now I need to get into work. Have a great Friday everyone!!

 

[Politesse]

I dropped my wife at the airport earlier for yet another weekend sales trip, I know that my day will end (or maybe all night) with me watching some good porn and stimulating myself and I am relatively sure (ok, positive) my wife will be doing the same in her hotel room. Since we both admitted to each other early in our relationship that we were both addicted to sex (good thing we are married to each other) this type of excessive solo simulation fun may not be normal for the average person. Is there any way we can have a honest and open discussion about self pleasuring and the pros and cons? Is there such a thing as doing it too much (or too little)? I guess since I have admitted to all of you that I jack off on a (maybe more than) regular basis, I will probably get my share of shit but as they say, 80% of people masturbate and the other 20% lie about doing it. I am fairly sure my wife will get involved in this discussion later on today when she gets to where she is heading. You can be sure we will have more to say about this later, but right now I need to get into work. Have a great Friday everyone!!

You seem to have somehow acessed this forum from 1974. Was Marty McFly involved?

 

[funcouple]

I dropped my wife at the airport earlier for yet another weekend sales trip, I know that my day will end (or maybe all night) with me watching some good porn and stimulating myself and I am relatively sure (ok, positive) my wife will be doing the same in her hotel room. Since we both admitted to each other early in our relationship that we were both addicted to sex (good thing we are married to each other) this type of excessive solo simulation fun may not be normal for the average person. Is there any way we can have a honest and open discussion about self pleasuring and the pros and cons? Is there such a thing as doing it too much (or too little)? I guess since I have admitted to all of you that I jack off on a (maybe more than) regular basis, I will probably get my share of shit but as they say, 80% of people masturbate and the other 20% lie about doing it. I am fairly sure my wife will get involved in this discussion later on today when she gets to where she is heading. You can be sure we will have more to say about this later, but right now I need to get into work. Have a great Friday everyone!!

You seem to have somehow acessed this forum from 1974. Was Marty McFly involved?

I am not sure of what you mean by your comment, however I will take a run at what I think you mean...there is not doubt that when we (especially us guys) young we were jacking cock all the time (even several times a day) and you think that people out grow the desire. My good friend realized that he was addicted to drinking beer when he was about 21 years old and he is now in his 50s and he is still addicted to drinking beer. He got in a lot of trouble for doing it, so he can't do it anymore, but if he could, he would. The same id true for us who are addicted to sex, even though we are older now.

 

[bigfield]

I know that my day will end (or maybe all night) with me watching some good porn and stimulating myself ...this type of excessive solo simulation fun may not be normal for the average person.

 

[fromderinside]

I know that my day will end (or maybe all night) with me watching some good porn and stimulating myself ....

suggestion. Take ZZZquil after you brush your teeth. You do brush your teeth, don't you? If not. That may the problem. ...anyhoo sleep begins when you get tired and you obviously aren't tired when you should be tired. So either ZZZquil or good exercise which is indicated by excess fat in your picture. Returning to teen bedroom practices in your fifties? isn't really healthy or recommended. Of course you could move to places where wild primates live and be a wild and crazy little monkey again. I'm sure predators would appreciate access to fresh meat.*

*still not getting it?

 

[Keith&Co.]

Jacking cock? What an unusual phrasing. I never heard it expressed that way.
Jacking odd, and jerking off, of course. Beating off. That's a new one, though.

 

[Loren Pechtel]

Too much jacking off:

1) When you do it to the point of causing injury.

2) When you do it in preference to sex with your partner.

 

[Bronzeage]

"To the lonely it is company; to the
forsaken it is a friend; to the aged and to the impotent it is a
benefactor. They that are penniless are yet rich, in that they
still have this majestic diversion." In another place this
experienced observer has said, "There are times when I prefer it
to sodomy."
Mark Twain

Pros: It feels good.

Cons: Haven't found any yet.

 

[funcouple]

Too much jacking off:

1) When you do it to the point of causing injury.

2) When you do it in preference to sex with your partner.

I am not sure how I like my husband letting everyone know what we each do while by ourselves, but what he says is true and I don't think doing it in preference of each other will ever happen. I am stuck in a hotel in the middle of nowhere so I think I will just check out the hotel bar for tonight. Maybe talk on here later.

 

[funcouple]

I wasn't sure if I should start this thread this morning but thanks for the thoughts and input

 

[spikepipsqueak]

As you point out, pretty much everyone masturbates.

I can't figure out why it seems to be such a matter of pride to you.

I grant you that masturbation is more fun than walking or breathing, but it is on a par with those two activities as a topic for attention seeking.

 

[funcouple]

As you point out, pretty much everyone masturbates.

I can't figure out why it seems to be such a matter of pride to you.

I grant you that masturbation is more fun than walking or breathing, but it is on a par with those two activities as a topic for attention seeking.

Nor can I figure out why my buddy could not stop drinking with just a couple of beers. Given the opportunity he would drink all night long, the same way that since my wife is out of town, I have been on an all night marathon porn and jack off session.

 

[fromderinside]

Wow. So when your partner is in the can you play with feces? Hmmmmnnn. Where have I seen that before. Soom topic require mature discussion others don't. this one ........ back in the third grade?

 

[funcouple]

Wow. So when your partner is in the can you play with feces? Hmmmmnnn. Where have I seen that before. Soom topic require mature discussion others don't. this one ........ back in the third grade?

I am not sure how you took the discussion in the feces direction but if you are into that I will not put you down, not for me though. However I don't think 3rd graders are visiting all of the porn sites and getting themselves off. I guess at least I have admitted publicly that I have no power over my addiction of sex, porn and jacking (AA first step), I just don't have any interest or need in going to the next steps.

 

[Bronzeage]

Wow. So when your partner is in the can you play with feces? Hmmmmnnn. Where have I seen that before. Soom topic require mature discussion others don't. this one ........ back in the third grade?

This does not make any sense.

 

[funcouple]

Wow. So when your partner is in the can you play with feces? Hmmmmnnn. Where have I seen that before. Soom topic require mature discussion others don't. this one ........ back in the third grade?

This does not make any sense.

I am glad I am not the only one who didn't get his point

 

[funcouple]

A nice long motorcycle ride with a buddy and now we are enjoying a cold beer and (what else right) porn.

 

[Bronzeage]

Wow. So when your partner is in the can you play with feces? Hmmmmnnn. Where have I seen that before. Soom topic require mature discussion others don't. this one ........ back in the third grade?

This does not make any sense.

I am glad I am not the only one who didn't get his point

You may have noticed this is not a forum filled with prurient posts and some forum members are not good at responding to them. We don't have Titty Tuesday or Foreskin Friday threads.

There are plenty of forums which do. Every forum eventually assumes it's peculiar personality. While some forums are filled with voyeurs who enjoy watching other people go at it, or at least talk about it, TFT is more of a "Get a room" crowd.

 

[funcouple]

I am glad I am not the only one who didn't get his point

You may have noticed this is not a forum filled with prurient posts and some forum members are not good at responding to them. We don't have Titty Tuesday or Foreskin Friday threads.

There are plenty of forums which do. Every forum eventually assumes it's peculiar personality. While some forums are filled with voyeurs who enjoy watching other people go at it, or at least talk about it, TFT is more of a "Get a room" crowd.

yea I guess we are I little more open than some. but others have looked at us a little weird all of our time together (my wife and I, I mean). Really we are just common people with an interesting addiction. thanks for the reply

 

[Toni]

I am glad I am not the only one who didn't get his point

You may have noticed this is not a forum filled with prurient posts and some forum members are not good at responding to them. We don't have Titty Tuesday or Foreskin Friday threads.

There are plenty of forums which do. Every forum eventually assumes it's peculiar personality. While some forums are filled with voyeurs who enjoy watching other people go at it, or at least talk about it, TFT is more of a "Get a room" crowd.

yea I guess we are I little more open than some. but others have looked at us a little weird all of our time together (my wife and I, I mean). Really we are just common people with an interesting addiction. thanks for the reply

I don't think it is a question of being more 'open.' To me, it makes for pretty boring conversation. But then, no one else's sex life is nearly as interesting to me as my own.

Partially, it's a question of whether this is the place to get the kind of interactions you seem to want to get.

The other part is that reading about someone who seems to have no other interests other than posting about drinking, watching porn and jacking off and his wife's tits and trying to get her to show them here or showing his own privates here just sounds.....limited. I don't find it interesting or enticing or engaging. Hey, maybe you really are getting a bunch of positive responses and messages. I don't know.

But if you are interested in engaging with others in discussions of porn watching, masturbation and your wife's tits, I think you've come to the wrong place.

If you want to talk about other stuff, look around a bit and see what we usually talk about and join in. Maybe introduce a topic that is not related to your sex life or your wife's body parts. Or yours. Or anybody else's. Or porn.