Toni
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I'm afraid you don't understand. I can tell it was an unwanted sexual advance. What I can't tell is why it was also classified as an attempted sexual assault. It can't be because it was an unwanted sexual advance, because the first example was an unwanted sexual advance but not a sexual assault.
Of course, you conflate criticising feminism -- and feminists -- with "anti-woman animus". I suppose this is sufficient for you: anti-feminist means anti-woman. Of course, it is the exact opposite. I believe feminism harms men and women.
But, as we all know, beliefs are irrational and cannot be willed away - even with education or evidence.
I never said all beliefs were irrational nor did I say education or evidence can't change people's beliefs. It simply does not follow from what I've said about beliefs.
The difference between an unwanted sexual advance and an attempted or threatened (or accomplished) sexual assault is the latter comes with an implied or explicit threat of force or actual force.
Most women and lot of men have experienced an unwelcomeor unwanted sexual
advance. Someone tried to pull you into a kiss that you don’t want. Lots of times it’s simply what we used to call a pass. You don’t return someone else’s feelings. Happens. Hopefully no hurt feelings.
It is an assault or attempted assault when someone attempts to isolate you from help, or seeks to prevent your escape from their advances or does not respect your refusal and attempts or does force unwanted sexual contact. That happens too often.