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An analogy might be the term "personality", which came to gradually replace "temperament" throughout much the same time period iof the 1970s in psychology. Nothing changed in terms of our ability to describe or understand individual pscyhological dispositions, we just came to feel that personality was a better term to use in an era where behavioralist explanations of motivation were starting to lose popularity; like "sex", the meaning of "temperament" therefore narrowed considerably to refer only to deterministic factors as opposed to social ones.
I'm guessing you meant behaviorist explanations; "behavioralist" is a term from political science. The circumstance that behaviorist explanations were ever popular in psychology in the first place reflects poorly on the amount of science in that "social science".
 
An analogy might be the term "personality", which came to gradually replace "temperament" throughout much the same time period iof the 1970s in psychology. Nothing changed in terms of our ability to describe or understand individual pscyhological dispositions, we just came to feel that personality was a better term to use in an era where behavioralist explanations of motivation were starting to lose popularity; like "sex", the meaning of "temperament" therefore narrowed considerably to refer only to deterministic factors as opposed to social ones.
I'm guessing you meant behaviorist explanations; "behavioralist" is a term from political science. The circumstance that behaviorist explanations were ever popular in psychology in the first place reflects poorly on the amount of science in that "social science".
Ah yes, a real science would never adapt as new information surfaced through experimentation and observation over time. :rolleyes:
 
He downplays their "feelings" as if they do not matter yet they came to a similar choice as him through the same means.
I dunno. Metaphor isn’t demanding that we ignore biology.
Actually he is. The brain and the "feelings" that come from it are biological in nature.
Nah. Metaphor, as I understanding it, is a male with same-sex attraction. He is not a male who says he's a female. He not demanding we accept that women have penises.
And there's the problem. Virtually no one is asking anyone to accept that males have penises. They are saying my brain is telling me my body is differant than what my brain tells me it should be and I wish to be respected as the gender my brain tells me I am. Metaphor rejects that.
I have no idea what it means to be "respected as the gender my brain tells me".

First, nobody can demand my 'respect'.

Second, if the demand for "respect" is "pretend (under the force of social censure and the force of the State) I am the sex I would have preferred to be and give me access to single-sex spaces on the basis of my gender identity", then hard no.

He downplays their "feelings" as if they do not matter yet they came to a similar choice as him through the same means.
I dunno. Metaphor isn’t demanding that we ignore biology.
Actually he is. The brain and the "feelings" that come from it are biological in nature.
We ignore the "feelings" of people all the time. "Feelings" do not qualify you to get whatever you demand. My biology would respond extremely positively to having sex with Henry Cavill but I do not get to demand Henry Cavill has sex with me.
Why do you keep bringing up "demand"? There are no demands in either of my posts.
Since Metaphor will no longer be defending himself it falls to others. You brought up demand in post #556 -- you claimed Metaphor is demanding that we ignore biology. (He wasn't demanding anything of the sort, by the way.)

And the absence of demands in your posts isn't on point. When Metaphor wrote " 'Feelings' do not qualify you to get whatever you demand.", he was not using "you" to mean you, ZiprHead, personally. He was using it in the idiomatic sense English commonly uses "you" in, to mean anyone at all, as one might say "You can't fight City Hall." or "Just because you're paranoid doesn't mean nobody is out to get you." He was arguing that trans people's feeling that they'd like other people to think or at least pretend to think of them as a particular sex does not qualify them to get that service from others, even if they demand it, because feelings do not qualify anyone to get whatever they demand from others.
 
I'm guessing you meant behaviorist explanations; "behavioralist" is a term from political science. The circumstance that behaviorist explanations were ever popular in psychology in the first place reflects poorly on the amount of science in that "social science".
Ah yes, a real science would never adapt as new information surfaced through experimentation and observation over time. :rolleyes:
Ah yes, I forgot behaviorism was a half-decent approximation of the observations that had been made up to then, like the Ptolemaic model of the universe. :rolleyes:

(And I didn't say abandoning it reflected poorly on whether psychology was a real science. That reflects well. If you're stipulating it wasn't a real science until the 50s but now it has become one, well, such things have been known to happen.)
 
I still haven't heard anyone explain why drag is inherently problematic.
I stand by my position that it is an inherently offensive caricature of women, and it should not be presented to children as if males putting on a cartoonish costume of women for laughs is something good.
I think that was my reaction for a long time: it was an ugly caricature of women, even when it wasn't intended as an ugly caricature. I've changed my mind over the years but it took real effort at trying to understand why someone would dress in such over the top costumes and embrace such over the top personas. I see it differently now: Those personas represent something different to the performers and the fans than to me. And sometimes it is a bit of a lampoon of stereotypes of women and also a send up of what (some) men are attracted to. When women dress with their hair and tits up to here, in stillettos with their skirts up to here and their neckline plunging and layers of makeup and eyelashes and hairspray and glittery jewelry and gowns: it's also a kind of costume for women as well, and a kind of armor.
 
Yet you reject using your body the way it was designed for use.
Our bodies were not designed.
Design may have been a poor word choice. Certainly human evolution has created us the way we are. Metaphor has rejected the way evolution has made us.
That's ridiculous. Humans were made by evolution. Everything about us is the way evolution made us. There is no Platonic Form of the Human Essence that human evolution was making, while something else was making actual humans to be pale cave shadows who fall short of that essence. No, evolution made Metaphor gayer than most of us every bit as much as it made him larger than most of us. You're making the same kind of mistake a Christian makes who says gays aren't following God's Will, as though anybody could possibly be different from however his omniscient and omnipotent Creator willed him to be.

I have no problem with that. What I object to is Metaphor's rejection of others who do the same as him. He downplays their "feelings" as if they do not matter yet they came to a similar choice as him through the same means. He clearly has a double standard.
:consternation2: Now being gay or trans is a choice, is it?
 
Making it sound like evolution is a force can lead to deep misunderstanding.
Evolution is a process that occurs without fail whenever a population of imperfect self-replicators exists in a dynamic fitness landscape.
If there is any "force" involved, it is the inclination of imperfect self replicators to self-replicate that drives the process.
 
I don't need to know that I produce motile gametes. I am of the sex that is organised around producing motile gametes.
Strange then that your brain tells you not to use them them for what they are designed to do.
Strange that I did not feel the need to tell that to my married friend who got a vasectomy.
I thought you were against people getting surgery that mutilates their genitals.
I don't know the person involved so I'm just going out on a limb here with wild speculation, but I'm guessing Metaphor's married friend who got a vasectomy was an adult.
 
Making it sound like evolution is a force can lead to deep misunderstanding.
Evolution is a process that occurs without fail whenever a population of imperfect self-replicators exists in a dynamic fitness landscape.
Bingo.

If there is any "force" involved, it is the inclination of imperfect self replicators to self-replicate that drives the process.
:consternation1: I know an imperfect self replicator who has an inclination to self-replicate, so he makes sperm-bank donations, and women he doesn't know have had his babies. But the vast majority of sentient imperfect self replicators have an inclination to copulate, not an inclination to self-replicate -- and most of those have no clue that the one leads to the other. And the vast majority of imperfect self replicators are non-sentient and therefore have no inclinations whatsoever.
 
Yet you reject using your body the way it was designed for use.
Our bodies were not designed.
Design may have been a poor word choice. Certainly human evolution has created us the way we are. Metaphor has rejected the way evolution has made us.
That's ridiculous. Humans were made by evolution. Everything about us is the way evolution made us. There is no Platonic Form of the Human Essence that human evolution was making, while something else was making actual humans to be pale cave shadows who fall short of that essence. No, evolution made Metaphor gayer than most of us every bit as much as it made him larger than most of us. You're making the same kind of mistake a Christian makes who says gays aren't following God's Will, as though anybody could possibly be different from however his omniscient and omnipotent Creator willed him to be.

I have no problem with that. What I object to is Metaphor's rejection of others who do the same as him. He downplays their "feelings" as if they do not matter yet they came to a similar choice as him through the same means. He clearly has a double standard.
:consternation2: Now being gay or trans is a choice, is it?
Apparently you don't understand Metaphor's hypocrisy. Have you not read his posts?
 
I don't need to know that I produce motile gametes. I am of the sex that is organised around producing motile gametes.
Strange then that your brain tells you not to use them them for what they are designed to do.
Strange that I did not feel the need to tell that to my married friend who got a vasectomy.
I thought you were against people getting surgery that mutilates their genitals.
I don't know the person involved so I'm just going out on a limb here with wild speculation, but I'm guessing Metaphor's married friend who got a vasectomy was an adult.
Did he limit his view to only children?
 
I do not identify as male. I just am male.
An appeal to magic? You say it, therefore it is?
The exact opposite. It is, therefore I say it.
But when other people say things, you call them liars, even they are telling you their gender identity, which they have more reason to know than any other person alive.
I have never disputed somebody's claimed gender identity (even though obviously they can lie about that if they want to).


I just don't care what their gender identity is. It's like you volunteering your star sign. I did not ask and do not care.
You have done this over and over and over in this thread. You really think we're stupid enough to forget that?

I'm glad you're ashamed enough about this behavior to lie about it, though.

You made a false statement about me. You said:

But when other people say things, you call them liars, even they are telling you their gender identity, which they have more reason to know than any other person alive.

I have never said somebody is lying about their gender identity. Not once. Stop your false accusations.
You have repeatedly implied that trans individuals are basing their claims of identity on ‘thoughts in their heads’ and that ‘thoughts in your head’ do not determine sex.''
Correct.

The unavoidable conclusion is that in your opinion, trans individuals are either lying or delusional because they insist something is true that you believe is impossible to be true.
If a biological male believes he is instead a biological female because his gender identity is 'female', then he is delusional, yes. That doesn't make him a liar, it makes him delusional.

If a biological male believes his 'gender identity' of 'female' means he should have access to single-sex spaces designed for females, I would not say that is a lie, it's simply an incoherent and selfish demand.
So, Politesse did not lie about you.
:picardfacepalm:
Good grief, why are you defending Politesse? Why are you insinuating that the stream of insulting abuse he spewed at Metaphor was fact-based? Why are you implying that what's at issue is whether Politesse lied? Whether he lied is between him and whatever logic-deficient procedure he uses to self-induce his imbecilic beliefs. The matters for public determination are whether what Politesse said was true, and whether he had substantive reasons to think it was true.

Politesse committed libel. Even if he irrationally believed what he said, it's was still libelous. What he wrote was false and damaging and he wrote it with reckless disregard for the truth.

But when other people say things, you call them liars, even they are telling you their gender identity, which they have more reason to know than any other person alive.
Metaphor did not call anyone a liar for telling him about his or her gender identity. That was an invention by Politesse. He made it up.

I just don't care what their gender identity is. It's like you volunteering your star sign. I did not ask and do not care.
You have done this over and over and over in this thread. You really think we're stupid enough to forget that?

I'm glad you're ashamed enough about this behavior to lie about it, though.
What Metaphor has done over and over in this thread is disagreed with claims Politesse agrees with, explained his own position, and corrected other posters' misrepresentations of his position. Politesse chose to interpret those disagreements as "call them liars" even though Metaphor's arguments were plainly perfectly compatible with the people making those claims simply being wrong. And then Politesse chose to compound his false accusation of Metaphor calling others liars with a trumped-up groundless accusation that Metaphor himself was lying. Metaphor obviously believed what he said. Politesse appears to have taken that final rhetorical potshot out of pure malice.

The unavoidable conclusion is that in your opinion, trans individuals are either lying or delusional because they insist something is true that you believe is impossible to be true.
Why on earth would you imagine that this unavoidable conclusion supports Politesse rather than Metaphor in their dispute? Politesse was maliciously prosecuting Metaphor on a false trumped-up charge, and you just provided Metaphor an eloquent defense. Exactly which part of "in your opinion" did you not understand when you were typing it? Even if Metaphor had been of the opinion that a person stating his or her gender identity was lying, so what? "In your opinion" is not the criterion for "you call them liars". You know that, don't you? In order for "you call them liars" to be true, Metaphor would have to say they were liars, not merely think it. This is not rocket science.

Furthermore, exactly which part of "or delusional" did you not understand when you were typing it? You put in that disjunction precisely because what Metaphor wrote was perfectly compatible with him thinking trans individuals are delusional, and you knew it, so you'd have had no basis for inferring that in his opinion trans individuals are lying, so you quite sensibly didn't infer it. That being the case, why the devil did you then jump from that unavoidable lemma to the very avoidable and avoidworthy conclusion that your reply was any sort of substantive counterargument to Metaphor's reply -- "I have never said somebody is lying about their gender identity. Not once. Stop your false accusations." -- to Politesse's insulting false accusation?
 
I thought you were against people getting surgery that mutilates their genitals.
I don't know the person involved so I'm just going out on a limb here with wild speculation, but I'm guessing Metaphor's married friend who got a vasectomy was an adult.
Did he limit his view to only children?
I don't recall him ever expressing opposition to consenting adults doing whatever they bloody well please to their own bodies. The guy is pretty libertarian regarding personal autonomy. If you know of examples to the contrary, share.
 
I do not identify as male. I just am male.
An appeal to magic? You say it, therefore it is?
The exact opposite. It is, therefore I say it.
But when other people say things, you call them liars, even they are telling you their gender identity, which they have more reason to know than any other person alive.
I have never disputed somebody's claimed gender identity (even though obviously they can lie about that if they want to).


I just don't care what their gender identity is. It's like you volunteering your star sign. I did not ask and do not care.
You have done this over and over and over in this thread. You really think we're stupid enough to forget that?

I'm glad you're ashamed enough about this behavior to lie about it, though.

You made a false statement about me. You said:

But when other people say things, you call them liars, even they are telling you their gender identity, which they have more reason to know than any other person alive.

I have never said somebody is lying about their gender identity. Not once. Stop your false accusations.
You have repeatedly implied that trans individuals are basing their claims of identity on ‘thoughts in their heads’ and that ‘thoughts in your head’ do not determine sex.''
Correct.

The unavoidable conclusion is that in your opinion, trans individuals are either lying or delusional because they insist something is true that you believe is impossible to be true.
If a biological male believes he is instead a biological female because his gender identity is 'female', then he is delusional, yes. That doesn't make him a liar, it makes him delusional.

If a biological male believes his 'gender identity' of 'female' means he should have access to single-sex spaces designed for females, I would not say that is a lie, it's simply an incoherent and selfish demand.
So, Politesse did not lie about you.
:picardfacepalm:
Good grief, why are you defending Politesse? Why are you insinuating that the stream of insulting abuse he spewed at Metaphor was fact-based? Why are you implying that what's at issue is whether Politesse lied? Whether he lied is between him and whatever logic-deficient procedure he uses to self-induce his imbecilic beliefs. The matters for public determination are whether what Politesse said was true, and whether he had substantive reasons to think it was true.

Politesse committed libel. Even if he irrationally believed what he said, it's was still libelous. What he wrote was false and damaging and he wrote it with reckless disregard for the truth.

But when other people say things, you call them liars, even they are telling you their gender identity, which they have more reason to know than any other person alive.
Metaphor did not call anyone a liar for telling him about his or her gender identity. That was an invention by Politesse. He made it up.

I just don't care what their gender identity is. It's like you volunteering your star sign. I did not ask and do not care.
You have done this over and over and over in this thread. You really think we're stupid enough to forget that?

I'm glad you're ashamed enough about this behavior to lie about it, though.
What Metaphor has done over and over in this thread is disagreed with claims Politesse agrees with, explained his own position, and corrected other posters' misrepresentations of his position. Politesse chose to interpret those disagreements as "call them liars" even though Metaphor's arguments were plainly perfectly compatible with the people making those claims simply being wrong. And then Politesse chose to compound his false accusation of Metaphor calling others liars with a trumped-up groundless accusation that Metaphor himself was lying. Metaphor obviously believed what he said. Politesse appears to have taken that final rhetorical potshot out of pure malice.

The unavoidable conclusion is that in your opinion, trans individuals are either lying or delusional because they insist something is true that you believe is impossible to be true.
Why on earth would you imagine that this unavoidable conclusion supports Politesse rather than Metaphor in their dispute? Politesse was maliciously prosecuting Metaphor on a false trumped-up charge, and you just provided Metaphor an eloquent defense. Exactly which part of "in your opinion" did you not understand when you were typing it? Even if Metaphor had been of the opinion that a person stating his or her gender identity was lying, so what? "In your opinion" is not the criterion for "you call them liars". You know that, don't you? In order for "you call them liars" to be true, Metaphor would have to say they were liars, not merely think it. This is not rocket science.

Furthermore, exactly which part of "or delusional" did you not understand when you were typing it? You put in that disjunction precisely because what Metaphor wrote was perfectly compatible with him thinking trans individuals are delusional, and you knew it, so you'd have had no basis for inferring that in his opinion trans individuals are lying, so you quite sensibly didn't infer it. That being the case, why the devil did you then jump from that unavoidable lemma to the very avoidable and avoidworthy conclusion that your reply was any sort of substantive counterargument to Metaphor's reply -- "I have never said somebody is lying about their gender identity. Not once. Stop your false accusations." -- to Politesse's insulting false accusation?
This is a pointless discussion, if you ask me, as Metaphor is no longer present to explain, correct, or defend his statements. I'm not going to either apologize for, but neither pursue, my point in the absence of its subject. That would hardly be fair.
 
I have no problem with that. What I object to is Metaphor's rejection of others who do the same as him. He downplays their "feelings" as if they do not matter yet they came to a similar choice as him through the same means. He clearly has a double standard.
:consternation2: Now being gay or trans is a choice, is it?
Apparently you don't understand Metaphor's hypocrisy.
Which hypocrisy are you talking about? His so-called "double standard"? Let's review the bidding.


Metaphor has rejected the way evolution has made us. I have no problem with that. What I object to is Metaphor's rejection of others who do the same as him. He downplays their "feelings" as if they do not matter yet they came to a similar choice as him through the same means. He clearly has a double standard.
Explain what my 'double standard' is. What demands am I making?

I dunno. Metaphor isn’t demanding that we ignore biology.
Actually he is. The brain and the "feelings" that come from it are biological in nature.

Explain what my 'double standard' is. What demands am I making?
I didn't say you made any demands. ???
Metaphor asked you two questions, and you only answered the second*.

(* And that one, incorrectly. Actually you did say he made any demands, when you wrote "Actually he is.".)


So, what is my double standard? Is it "reject how evolution has made us" whilst forcing trans people to "accept" evolution? I am not forcing them to do anything.

ZiprHead said:
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Now where were we? Ah yes...

Apparently you don't understand Metaphor's hypocrisy.
Apparently the case for Metaphor being hypocritical is proof-by-repetition. If you want your readers to "understand Metaphor's hypocrisy", don't just tell us we don't. Answer post #564.

Have you not read his posts?
What, all 12378 of them over the 15+ years he spent positively contributing to the forum's intellectual thoughtfulness, intellectual infidelity, and intellectual diversity? No doubt I missed a few in there. Feel free to exhibit some hypocrisy. But keep in mind that disagreeing with progressivism is not hypocritical per se.
 
No one did.
Y'all are having a conversation about me, but I'm not invited to comment?
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