Emily Lake
Might be a replicant
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Of course it's entirely possible I'm reading too much into it.I think you are reading way too deep into this. Statements regarding how the woman should have reacted to seeing Noah being misplaced aside, the reaction the woman had has been brought up for a couple reasons, including legitimate ones. Had the three guys heard a scream or alarm, that presents a presumption for them and they enter into the situation with an initial bias that there is trouble. This isn't the woman's fault, it is just an observational fact. The immediate decisions they choose to make will be influenced by this initial bias.
The reason the three men act as they do is unclear and we'll never know. The violence itself would be unwarranted in any case, shy of Noah assaulting the woman, but seeing there are no charges as such, that almost definitely did not happen. Jarhyn's reflection on her reaction was about it being the cause of violence, but instead regarding respect to Noah. That doesn't make it fair or correct, but I didn't seeing Jarhyn blaming the woman's reaction for the violence. Of course, there have been lots of posts, so it is possible I missed it.
Alternatively... it could also be that 200-some posts into this thread and almost the entire discussion is focused around the woman in the bathroom who (at least initially) objected to a male-appearing person being in there with her.
That's where I'm coming from. The focus is completely on the woman in the bathroom, even to the extent of calling her a sex-based slur.
I really do appreciate your participation in this. And I know I'm prickly. But this is what I'm talking about:
I get what you're saying, I do. But this is still framing the actions of the men as being the responsibility of the woman. It's all framed so that she is the cause of those three men attacking Ruiz - even if you don't place blame on her, you're still framing the discussion around the assumption that it is her reaction inside the bathroom that caused them to attack Ruiz.Statements regarding how the woman should have reacted to seeing Noah being misplaced aside, the reaction the woman had has been brought up for a couple reasons, including legitimate ones. Had the three guys heard a scream or alarm, that presents a presumption for them and they enter into the situation with an initial bias that there is trouble.
It's still being presented as her responsibility.