Actually this would be a woman "breaking" social boundaries.
In what way?
How did she break any social boundaries?
Tom
So either Ruiz is a woman identifying as a male in the women's bathroom or a woman who identifies as a man going to the bathroom in the men's bathroom. Neither of these is baseline. The irony of this case is that this is opposite with the locker room shower, where no one would have batted an eye.
Almost certainly, for cis women in a shower who unexpectedly were confronted by someone like Ruiz, who from photos, appears to be male but who, according to Ruiz, still has female generalist, there would have been some confusion/double takes, depending on whether or not they had encountered similar individuals or were sophisticated enough to realize very quickly what the real situation was.
In an ideal world, of course it would not be an issue. In reality, people react from an emotional state.
I realize and am extremely sorry that at least some of the make posters in this thread have been assaulted because of how they are perceived and that some of the assaults have been sexual assaults. I believe all or most of the women in this thread have experienced sexual assault from males.
I understand that for some of the people posting in this thread, women’s bathrooms and locker rooms represent a space where they believe and hope that they can finally be free of the threat to their physical safety.
What I think is completely lost is the fact that cis-women also regard women’s bathrooms and locker rooms as safe havens where they do not need to deal with the possibility of being assaulted by a man or even being leered at.
So, it’s the same need. It’s unfortunate that for at least some women, a male looking person would be triggering—would bring up a fight/flight/freeze response based on their past experiences and centuries of social conditioning. The feeling of safety and security of the cis woman would be lost. I am guessing that the same loss of security and safety would be lost for the trans or gender non-confirming individual. There would be a lot of very complicated feelings to process almost instantaneously—something that seems impossible.
I agree that it is unfair that trans individuals have yet another burden placed upon them to demonstrate that they are no threat and that they do belong.
It is also unfair that cis-women are expected to give up their sense of privacy, security and safety because male people have an outsized history of violence towards women and towards any individual they deem as not belonging and that the unexpected presence of someone who appears male will instantly cause at least some women distress and even trauma.
The only solutions I can think of involve universal doors on individual stalls and changing rooms to ensure everyone’s privacy. Male/female/gender neutral alike. Another option would be gender neutral spaces where individuals who are non-surgical trans or otherwise gender-non-confirming would be expected to go. That ( a requirement to use only such spaces) seems discriminatory.
What is very likely to happen if cis women are forced to accept that trans Indy ideals who retain male genitalia are allowed in open dressing rooms and showers and bathrooms is that at least some women and girls will no longer participate in athletics at all. They will self segregate and stay home.
I think that there definitely are males who would be most pleased with this outcome.
What I do not understand—or maybe I just don’t like the probable reasons—is why there is mo enormous outcry against MEN for being so unwelcoming towards trans and non-binary or gender non-confirming individuals or gay individuals? WHY aren’t men required to change their behavior, their sense of entitlement, their bigotries?