I just find it incredibly stupid that they have spent the last 60 years actively ruining their own lives.
That is your perspective and opinion on the issue.
That is the conclusion based on an observation of objective facts.
It's a conclusion. You may have observed a subset of facts that are important to you. It is
entirely opinion that somebody has 'ruined their lives' because of the facts you claim to have observed.
It hasn't seemed to occur to you that they value things differently to you, and that they would not consider that they have 'actively' ruined their lives, or that their lives are, in fact, in ruin.
Firstly, it has occurred to me - that is why their behavior is stupid, in fact.
What makes them stupid? That they don't realise their lives are ruined, or that they value things differently to you? Both, presumably.
Secondly, the entire premise of this thread is somebody else said their lives are ruined and that they need help, it's not like I just rolled up and started making that claim.
That I gave an assist to Emily who torpedoed your claim that you were not disdainful does not mean that I agree with any other claim by anyone else.
Whining like a mewling kitten because your fee-fees are hurt that I used mean words, without even an attempt to address any of the points I made, isn't making a strong counter-argument. It's just being a baby.
Who was "whining"?
So far, you and Toni and Emily.
Responding to claims is not whining. You are mistaken.
I specifically did not want to engage with your "points", but to amplify Emily's pointing out of your expressed disdain for rural people.
So, you are thinking that "I wasn't whining, I was just virtue-signaling to the person who was whining" is a good look for you?
The very idea that I would even attempt to virtue signal on this board is quite laughable. What would it gain me? There is no amount of performative supplication I could muster that would soften the feelings of many on this board, nor do I necessarily value the esteem of people whose values are in opposition to mine.
Neither Toni, Emily, nor myself were 'whining'.
As for your arguments--even if I agreed that electing Democrats would improve the material wellbeing of rural folk (and I do not necessarily agree, I am agnostic on that)--that presumes that the most important value for all voters is that the government improving their perosnal material wellbeing. In fact, I don't think many voters would say that is their central value.
Firstly I wouldn't say voting Democrat would improve their lives necessarily, but it is an undeniable and objective truth that if Democrats were consistently a majority both nationally and in the regions where these people live the decline in their standard of living over the past several decades would have been slowed or prevented.
If Democrats were consistently a majority both nationally and in the regions, then America would be an effective one-party State, and nobody's life is made better for living in a one-party State.
It's simply not debatable that in the U.S., Republican socioeconomic policy (both stated in their platform and agendas, and the things they just do in general) has a demonstrably negative impact on the quality of life and material conditions of people who aren't rich assholes.
If your life getting worse
It is indeed debatable, but even if it were not and I accepted your claim, you are once again placing 'material wellbeing enabled by government' as the highest value for a voter, simply because you imagine it should be their highest value.
doesn't matter to you because you hate women and black people so much
I must say, you are starting to convince me. Rural Republican voters are so stupid that even though, year after year after year of putting Republicans in power, there are women and black people everywhere, instead of women and black people getting exterminated!
that you'd rather die of a meth overdose in a hovel than see them have basic rights, then you're a fucking idiot - which is fine, people are allowed to do that, but it's a pathetic travesty that your opinion is allowed to participate in the governance of human civilization.
Oh, that is a travesty that they are allowed to vote. Perhaps you can foment a revolution.