Makes sense. If a server is rude, insulting, gets your order wrong, purposely spills your food on you, and mocks you for it, in no way is it a good idea to complain! Don’t inform management about it!! Just let it happen, and the fact that you have to eat there every week, and you see it happening to you and other people, you still shouldn’t complain! That way you can be sure they (probably) haven’t messed with your food.
Best idea is to tell them that the
guy at the table over there BLM was complaining about them. That way they have someone else's
food life to mess with.
Aaaah. I was wondering what the allegory was suggesting. I was not able to parse it.
Tom - I can see why you would not want to address the fact that you were blaming BLM for the problem, even when you were shown that the story had
nothing whatsoever to do with BLM. I can imagine a lot of people would think
retreat!! when they realize that they’ve been falsely accusing a minority group of causing a problem that results in the minority group being killed. It’s probably an icky feeling. So saying, “well what about what YOU do wrong, huh?” Probably seems like a good way to extract oneself from that feeling.
But the record remains: you were blaming BLM for black people getting killed. And it turns out that was a lie some people are trying to promulgate, and they tricked you into adding your voice and passing on their lie.
I, personally, think it’s really really important for good people to know when they’ve done something at odds with their character. Most people want to fix that. Whether you care that you were falsely blaming BLM for something they had nothing to do with in the context of Black people dying unjustly at the hands of police, is your decision.
But lots of people read these threads, so, for them, I encourage discussion of
how that happens that BLM and Black people are falsely blamed for their own unjust deaths.
I think it is worth discussing.