Toni
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Dressing room in Bergdorfs? I've never been but I've been in multiple dressing rooms in my lifetime and yeah, people can and do engage in sex acts in some of these. I would be surprised if there were zero rapes in such places. The specific incident I was thinking of entailed a supposed assault that happened in a busy corridor in a government building that I had spent some time in long ago. It just wasn't....plausible for multiple reasons but the location was the biggest one. I don't remember the details.Even if it does, verisimilitude is not evidence that it actually happened.The narrative laid out in court testimony sounds truthful.
Does she go by a pseudonym as well?Note that her testimony was corroborated by the other girl who was 12 or 13 at the time of the assaults.
Could be an attempt to capitalize on those other cases then.Moreover, they fit in well with the narratives described by other victims.
That would explain why you automatically believe the 13 year old (at the time) accuser.Having myself been sexually assaulted at 13, I can well understand why she did not come forward before.
As long as the person is of age and not being forced into it, I do not think it should be a crime, much less "rape".It is not a secret ( anymore) that many young would be models and actresses are pressured to engage in sex acts abd sometimes are forced to engage in unwanted sex—they are raped. Of course for years it was simply referred to as the casting couch and the shame attributed to the victim and not to the powerful person with authority who would be believed over their victims. It happened to men and boys, as well.
Of course it is unethical, but both people in the transaction are behaving unethically here, not just the casting agent.
Most definitely. Also because of your history.Is it easier to believe because I detest Trump? Perhaps.
Bill Cosby most probably did commit those crimes, but he should not have been convicted because of the agreement he made in exchange for testimony. For the corrupt DA to disregard that agreement and prosecute him anyway was highly unethical and the conviction was rightly vacated.But I also believe the victims of Bill Cosby whose work I’ve enjoyed since I was a child, as well as the victims of Kevin Soacey—again, whose work I admire.
Kevin Spacey I am far less sure. The allegations made were much more muddled (if I recall correctly) and the accuser was a mess.
Like for example a changing room at Bergdorf's. Not to mention she lifted the scenario from an SVU episode.Don always believe claims? No. I’ve read a few that literally do not make sense, largely because I happen to be familiar with the place the alleged act took place and… it is implausible that things could have happened as described—too much foot traffic and unpredictable foot traffic would have made it very difficult for things to have happened as described.
It's not implausible, and Trump may well be guilty of what she alleges, but something being plausible is not evidence.In any case, it is mostly plausible because Jeffery Epstein was convicted of procuring a child for prostitution and soliciting a prostitute, in a controversial plea deal. He was accused of much more. Jeffrey Epstein was convicted of child prostitution. Why is it implausible that this person is one of those he procured?
As to the woman who claims to have been raped by Trump as a child only coming forward when other accusers did. I understand it very well. There is always the deep fear that you will not be believed, or that people will blame you. It's a lot to have on the line so there is safety in numbers. I DO absolutely regret not coming forward when I learned my attacker was marrying a woman with 2 daughters about 12 and 14 or so. I did try to get a moment to take her aside and tell her to be careful--and why but the chance never materialized. This was at a big family event so......Anyway, later, they divorced (his second) and both ex wives stated domestic violence as factors, which, given what I know about his temper, is entirely plausible. I genuinely hope that was the worst of it. And yeah, sometimes it keeps me up at nights.
But to this day, I have not disclosed to family still living who know him. A small part of me fears that they either would not believe me --why would I tell anyone 50+ years after the fact?? Or blame me. Or minimize. I was not actually raped. He did not anticipate me fighting back--which was dumb of him. He knew me well enough to know I was not shy about standing up for myself. Still, shock can paralyze you. It's a coping mechanism. We talk about fight or flight but there's also freeze and try to make yourself small and invisible. Unfortunately for him, it turns out, I'm a fighter. All of that said, if I had had any whiff of a hint that he was ever ever ever around any of my nieces: I would have told all the family AFTER I had a very, very serious talk about him about exactly what would happen if I ever heard even a hint that he looked funny at any of them. Which I should have done when I learned he was marrying again. But: family event (funeral, actually) and not a chance to warn anyone. He did not let her an arm's length away from him at any time.