It's my construction site, so I am very familiar with the roads. Men think this is friendly and being nice. My take is that it is offensive, I am not capable. This is what men don't get. I doubt that it was sexual, am 59 years old, although I am told I still very attractive.
I was the only woman at this meeting (which is the way it has been for 20 years), all of these contractors respect me and are extremely professional in my presence. This guy was new.
OK, fair enough. Sounds like it wasn't considered sexual harrassment, but sexism. So, let's kick it up a notch. What if you got a flat tire on your truck on the construction site? Perhaps you're like me and you get about 1 or 2 flats per year and swap in the spare tire on your own, no problem. If a guy approached your truck and asked if you needed help, I assume you would be offended in this case as well. But what if you weren't knowledgeable or experienced in changing a tire, and a guy approached you with an offer of help. Would you welcome the help? Would you get pissed if the men on the site stood around and ignored you and your situation because they figure you were capable and already know how to put on the spare?
The point is, how is a guy to know? It seems like he would risk being in a classic
Kobyoshi Maru situation. If he offers help he could get branded a misogynist for assuming a woman can't do a very basic, everyday thing like changing a tire. If he doesn't offer help, he could get branded a misogynist for purposely avoiding helping out a woman.