ruby sparks
Contributor
Notice that JP did not provide actual evidence to support his claim - he simply is reporting his impression, not the actual statements.It would be if it wasn't immediately jumped on by Toni and others as an example of the problem.
I would have to remind myself of the order of events and what exactly was said. I don't recall anyone saying that saying 'smile' was always harassment.
Well, imo, some have come...close...ish...to saying it, even if he is wrong to say it was actually said.
My impression is that some have pretty much said it is always bad, in the scenarios presented in the videos, for example.
I think saying that this is often or mostly true, depending on the recipient's reaction, would be more accurate.